john.smith
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When you were talking about the social consequence of eating chocolate, it made me think of this video :
When you were talking about the social consequence of eating chocolate, it made me think of this video :
I wanted the thread re-opened in large part because I was going to post a bit about the ways that I think one can fairly effectively (much more effectively and easily than with chocolate bars at least) avoid patronizing abused and/or coerced sex workers. However, after a bit of reflection, I think such a post (and related discussions) should have their own thread rather than being "hidden" in this one. Basically I imagine that whether one thinks consensual p4p is moral or immoral, we would probably all agree that any guy doing p4p should try to avoid non-consensual p4p if at all possible. So, it is really a separate issue.
I'll make such a thread presently.
-Ww
I kept thinking about this
I've been thinking about this a lot and in an ideal world there'd probably be completely legal p4p, completely govenment controlled so no forced p4p and prices are low, kind of like a regular massage or therapist session. Girls dont have to retire young and you dont get to choose your girl, so you could get hooked up with some 65 years old or something. Alternatively there could be "private clinics" with only hot girls for very high prices not govenment controlled. Also there wouldn't be a social judgement on sex workers. It would be a service like hospital or therapist.
That's the most beautiful thing which can happen in a professional life, and the root of outstanding skills. I have no doubt you will keep having customer until your 40 and even after.Basically i do want to do the job that i love most for the rest of my life
The title of this topic sounds quite insulting to the escorts on this site.
This whole threat feels pretty hurtful for escorts.
It's seriously questioning if our job is immoral.
Personally i hate PUA. Yes, some of my relationships started that way. Yes, it can definitely work. But in most cases it doesn't work. Its so awkward if a guy who is not your type goes up to you with a cheesy line and you have to turn him down. Especially on the street. Like, i'm most likely on my way to an appointment and busy.
How would you feel if a woman who is unattractive to you would talk when you are on your way to work and you have to turn them down? A little awkward, huh? And what if you are in a relationship but some totally random girl keeps trying to flirt? Not even mentioning catcalling, every comment on my body is gonna get ignored, even if a hottie makes it. Dont come with "you're asking for it with those clothes", i'm not gonna be angry at you for enjoying the view but nobody asked for your unwanted comment.
I've been thinking about this a lot and in an ideal world there'd probably be completely legal p4p, completely govenment controlled so no forced p4p and prices are low, kind of like a regular massage or therapist session. Girls dont have to retire young and you dont get to choose your girl, so you could get hooked up with some 65 years old or something. Alternatively there could be "private clinics" with only hot girls for very high prices not govenment controlled. Also there wouldn't be a social judgement on sex workers. It would be a service like hospital or therapist.
Nothing like that is gonna happen anytime soon i think.
We live in a flawed world
The important bit that seems to have been mostly ignored in the discussion of her idea above is the one that I made bold, namely that this government provided minimal sexual services system would not replace much higher quality options for those who could afford them. This again follows the pattern of how the Western European democracies deal with medical care, food, housing etc. For example, the fact that basic food is provided to those who would otherwise be going hungry does not mean that posh and excellent restaurants are not also available to those who can afford them.
Yes, the idea that sex is a basic need similar to healthcare, welfare, education, etc. is not a rare idea in the EU where there is a long history of egalitarian thinking.
However, this idea is very difficult/impossible for many Americans to understand/accept for a lot if historical, cultural, and religious reasons.
Some guys are dicks, yeah. Some are deceitful, repeat canned lines and fake stories, don't know how to take a hint when you're politely givin them the brush off. Some put up YouTube videos meeting girls on the street, pretending that later when the cameras are off those girls didn't quickly get bored of the little dance this clown and his camera was doing for them, and moved the fuck on.@Solong , @Dorian Gray , @Sinapse and all other cold-PUA advocates, I hope you will read the above at least twice and think about it honestly. I know @User#8628 quite well, and I can assure you that if there are more sex-positive, open-minded, adventurous and just plain old fun women out there, I have never met any of them. Moreover and as she states, she has had relationships start via PUA/nampa/gaming, so it is not like she is hysterically sensitive to being approached by a stranger in some crazy way. Yet she still says that she hates it and gives a clear explanation of why it bothers her so much. You should pay attention to this post imo.
And fwiiw, @User#8628 is not the only woman I have heard express this reaction to cold-PUA or whatever you want to call what you do.
-Ww