Keihan
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I was never really a career guy, worked as an accountant + HR for 8 years until I had enough of my bosses and coincidentally Japan made working holiday visas available again earlier this year when COVID was still " a thing". So I quit my job (this happened BEFORE the visa thing - I just needed a break in general), applied for the visa, got it and have been travelling around since June, living off my savings. I never aspired to become some big boss man, head of a department or CEO. I went to work, clocked in, pretended to work for 6/8 hours I was there and then clocked out (that's before I reduced hours to 6 a day at the cost of my income because I wanted more free time). It's been mostly good here in Japan, wish I had done some stuff differently (especially regarding my Japanese skills) but mostly great. Not many people get to have a year "off", travelling for a year so I am trying to enjoy my time and be grateful for what I have. But yeah - he's right in certain points. It would take way too much effort and - more importantly - time to even realistically move to Japan. Also, I have been to Japan plenty of times and know enough about the culture to know that living here would be a vastly different experience compared to what I do now.
I'd have to actually study Japanese and get to N2/N1 levels, which would take ages. I'd also have to go to uni and get a degree. Germany's education system simultaneously blessed and cursed me. Blessed in Germany because I didn't need to go to uni to get a well paying job. Cursed because the 3 years of training + certified graduation are somehow not the same as some random bum going to college, getting a degree in Mickey Mouse and applying to be an ALT. So that'd cost me another 2-3 years at least and after all that, the 8 years of work experience I have would basically be reset to 0 anyway and the jobs I could get in Japan are the ones I certainly do not want. Fuck being an English teacher, I hate kids. Me in a class with children would end in disaster.
Reality is that I should've done this shit 10 years ago and not at 30 and I guess I am slowly coming to terms with the fact that I am not gonna have that nice 20s experience where I stay in Japan for a prolonged period of time, learn the language, play around with Japanese ladies and talk about it on TAG. It'll be me going back home in May next year, back to the boring 30-40 hour work days in a small-ass town, thinking about my poor life choices until I am 55 and get a stroke.
I would say you're doing as well as you possibly could and had the right idea. I always tell people who ask me about it, Japan is a fucking amazing vacation...but actually living there is where it gets complicated. For my part, pre-pandemic I was spending a combined length of about two months per year in Japan. I wish I had a job (or the financial resources) where I could spend, say, every other month living in Tokyo. But a month is about all I can do at my age. Perhaps I tend to live excessively while in-country but after two or three weeks, Japan starts to wear me down, physically and mentally. I know it's time to go home when I'm actually dreaming about the airport bar and flight. And that's in Tokyo, which I LIKE--I get sick and tired of Osaka within a day, sometimes hours.
But again, that's me. I'm in my 40s, I'm not looking for a partner, and if I'm being honest I'm not even that interested in sex anymore (much prefer the effortless leisure of handjobs). Nice meals, nice massages, nice hot baths, nice booze and buying myself nice shiny shit and that's heaven for me.
You sound a lot like me, at least as far a the job. I do the bare minimum, hate being there but hit all my quotas and work just hard enough to pay for nice vacations. A year off to fuck around is seriously golden and you should count yourself lucky. Now go home, figure out a way to get fabulously rich and then the next time you come back you'll have stampedes of 20yo bimbos tripping over themselves trying to squat on you.