Yeah, you're right.
Anyway, I've never needed to go out and hunt for women, so I suppose I wouldn't know.
But then, the term "compliance" never really crossed my mind when dating someone I viewed as a human being.
But yeah man, sounds like you are BUSY! Good on ya!
Here is an example of a scheduling conflict that can naturally come up, when you are dating Japanese women.
2 Japanese women asked to meet me on Sunday. I will likely have to reschedule or cancel one of them.
It's not necessarily that I'm doing anything wrong, it's just timing.
If I meet both on Sunday, from experience, it has to be 5 to 6 hours apart for it to work effectively. Like meet one at 1pm and the other at 7pm.
And that's where it gets problematic with Japanese women.
1) You can be all happy that it's going be a double fun day, and BOTH of them suddenly cancel or seek to reschedule.
Completely destroying my free time on Sunday. And I could have made other plans in that time slot. Canceling at the last second is inconsiderate and rude.
Many Japanese women are UNRELIABLE. Or, she wants you as the guy to be reliable for her, while she is unreliable to the guy.
2) 1 of them doesn't like the earlier time rescheduling and we go back and forth with agreeing on a new day. So if not Sunday, next week or 2 weeks later.
And that 1 week or 2 weeks later date, can easily get canceled with Japanese women.
Women will also have OTHER guys on their schedule. They don't admit to it though, but that is where "busy" often comes from. An excuse for her to hide what she is doing.
With Japanese women, scheduling can be very hard. They tend not to offer reasonable alternative time slots or will push the meeting date out to weeks later.
3) If you don't have multiple women, sex can be very infrequent, unless you live with the Japanese woman or she is a co-worker/neighbor.
This is something that often goes unmentioned about LOW sexual frequency in Japan.
A "busy" Japanese woman may only see her guy 1x a week. And remember she has her period for one week in the month. That can be sex only 3x in an entire month.
So many guys in Japan need multiple girlfriends to have normal sexual frequency (2x to 4x a week) or they BUY women.
4) Too many Japanese women, if they think they don't have any female competition, can STOP having sex or start doing very low frequency.
This is an extremely common scenario in Japan. Japan has the highest level of sexLESS couples among industrialized countries.
Part of this is linked to the WEIRD thinking of many Japanese women. They will have mass quantities of sex with a guy, if they think you are popular with other women and the relationship is NEW. But once they think they got the guy only for themselves, they start to using sex as a weapon of control or feel it's burdensome.
I can't count the number of guys who are married or living with Japanese women that must sneak out and cheat to get sex, because their woman isn't putting out enough.
And sometimes the Japanese woman is just plain bored with having sex with the same guy. She likes his money or looks, so stays in the relationship, but she has other lovers on the side. She has sex with her main guy only 1x a week, while playing with other guys on the side.
