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I find that the people in this forum can be very unfriendly and unhelpful. If people ask simple question that is already posted somewhere in this forum, they will be lambasted for not using the search function. For me, I’m getting roasted here for asking a genuine question as a fan. 😒
Get…the flying fuck over yourself dude.

People were nice at the start, but you wouldn’t stop. Let’s break this down:

1st: You first begged for costs and details about a specific JAV. Two TAG members told you firmly that she is NOT seeing foreigners.

2nd: You either ignored their advice or were too filled to the brim with unreleased semen to focus on replying “gee okay that sucks thanks,” and move on with your life. Instead, you went on prattling about your mystification why she is playing with customers. Then you needed to bring up your Taiwanese history as though we are going to respond in shock in awe at your Asian-ness. Again, the replies indicated to you that she was accepting Japanese ONLY, but you insisted that your Chinese appearance magically makes you pass a “I can has sex” test so you ignored tons of honest and direct advice.

3rd: You asked for someone to reach out to the shop for you without offering any compensation. Why in the hell would anyone try to help you get your dick wet when they had to do the research themselves? This was an act of selfishness, and you became indignant when it was pointed out.

You THEN asked about vaginal sex, ignoring advice all over this forum AND on the website of Tora no Ana about intercourse being illegal. Again, it was brought to your attention, and you became indignant.

4th: Your worst shit…you went on to tell all of us that paying enough money will get you what you want, then got mad when we told you Japan doesn’t work that way.

Bottom line: We were more friendly than you ever deserved. You ignored our advice and demonstrated the attitude of someone who would harass and/or do worse to a provider for some egomaniacal sexual gain, so we made you pay for it.

I sincerely hope you miss every opportunity there is to meet this woman or any JAV you ever blew a load to in your life.
 
So, I wont fuck Heather Hunter.
Because I was very young and had no cash when she was around.

Now I have some cash, speak japanese and could probably fuck a number of recent JAV-girls but thing is, now I get of on other shit.

I might give Kato Rose a shot though, she is doing some guest plays at Tiara.

As for being helpful. No matter how much we point you in the right direction we can't help you become Japanese, teach you the language and grow a beard.

One of my first P2P encounters we're with a girl* I thought I could become friends with and posted about it, man did I get advise I didnt think I need. In hindsight, I was fucking begging for it and they did go easy on me.
Everyone is going easy on you too!

*She is graduating today, Erina I love you!
 
Get…the flying fuck over yourself dude.

People were nice at the start, but you wouldn’t stop. Let’s break this down:

1st: You first begged for costs and details about a specific JAV. Two TAG members told you firmly that she is NOT seeing foreigners.

2nd: You either ignored their advice or were too filled to the brim with unreleased semen to focus on replying “gee okay that sucks thanks,” and move on with your life. Instead, you went on prattling about your mystification why she is playing with customers. Then you needed to bring up your Taiwanese history as though we are going to respond in shock in awe at your Asian-ness. Again, the replies indicated to you that she was accepting Japanese ONLY, but you insisted that your Chinese appearance magically makes you pass a “I can has sex” test so you ignored tons of honest and direct advice.

3rd: You asked for someone to reach out to the shop for you without offering any compensation. Why in the hell would anyone try to help you get your dick wet when they had to do the research themselves? This was an act of selfishness, and you became indignant when it was pointed out.

You THEN asked about vaginal sex, ignoring advice all over this forum AND on the website of Tora no Ana about intercourse being illegal. Again, it was brought to your attention, and you became indignant.

4th: Your worst shit…you went on to tell all of us that paying enough money will get you what you want, then got mad when we told you Japan doesn’t work that way.

Bottom line: We were more friendly than you ever deserved. You ignored our advice and demonstrated the attitude of someone who would harass and/or do worse to a provider for some egomaniacal sexual gain, so we made you pay for it.

I sincerely hope you miss every opportunity there is to meet this woman or any JAV you ever blew a load to in your life.
Get…the flying fuck over yourself dude.

People were nice at the start, but you wouldn’t stop. Let’s break this down:

1st: You first begged for costs and details about a specific JAV. Two TAG members told you firmly that she is NOT seeing foreigners.

2nd: You either ignored their advice or were too filled to the brim with unreleased semen to focus on replying “gee okay that sucks thanks,” and move on with your life. Instead, you went on prattling about your mystification why she is playing with customers. Then you needed to bring up your Taiwanese history as though we are going to respond in shock in awe at your Asian-ness. Again, the replies indicated to you that she was accepting Japanese ONLY, but you insisted that your Chinese appearance magically makes you pass a “I can has sex” test so you ignored tons of honest and direct advice.

3rd: You asked for someone to reach out to the shop for you without offering any compensation. Why in the hell would anyone try to help you get your dick wet when they had to do the research themselves? This was an act of selfishness, and you became indignant when it was pointed out.

You THEN asked about vaginal sex, ignoring advice all over this forum AND on the website of Tora no Ana about intercourse being illegal. Again, it was brought to your attention, and you became indignant.

4th: Your worst shit…you went on to tell all of us that paying enough money will get you what you want, then got mad when we told you Japan doesn’t work that way.

Bottom line: We were more friendly than you ever deserved. You ignored our advice and demonstrated the attitude of someone who would harass and/or do worse to a provider for some egomaniacal sexual gain, so we made you pay for it.

I sincerely hope you miss every opportunity there is to meet this woman or any JAV you ever blew a load to in your life.
why are you so riled up? First of all, I have to acknowledge that my post on the people not being friendly in this forum as inaccurate. I should not have cast all in the same light. I was referring to specific person like MikeH. His replies are uttering useless and a total waste of my internet bandwidth.

And see, I did show my contrition by saying I know she doesn’t see foreigners at all in Tora and I know I have ZERO chance. But my point is that I want to meet her in person, she’s retired now so meet and greet is out of the question. I couldn’t have done that during her active days as i am not based in Japan. I will be in Tokyo soon and thats why I hope I can get a chance to meet her in person.

Yes, I was not specific enough in saying that I would compensate people for helping me make an enquiry in Japanese. If there is anyone who would help me with this, please DM me, I would gladly compenstate you for all your efforts.
 
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why are you so riled up? First of all, I have to acknowledge that my post on the people not being friendly in this forum as inaccurate. I should not have cast all in the same light. I was referring to specific person like MikeH. His replies are uttering useless and a total waste of my internet bandwidth.

And see, I did show my contrition by saying I know she doesn’t see foreigners at all in Tora and I know I have ZERO chance. But my point is that I want to meet her in person, she’s retired now so meet and greet is out of the question. I couldn’t have done that during her active days as i am not based in Japan. I will be in Tokyo soon and thats why I hope I can get a chance to meet her in person.

Yes, I was not specific enough in saying that I would compensate people for helping me make an enquiry in Japanese. If there is anyone who would help me with this, please DM me, I would gladly compenstate you for all your efforts.
@MikeH is our goalkeeper.

Our last line of defense.
Our trump card.
Our Spirit Bomb.
If you managed to inspire him to respond to you in anything but good faith, it is because you said or did something obnoxious.

(Actually, all of the above is a lie. MikeH is just a giant dick. Isn’t he great?)

Anyway, best of luck to you.
 
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why are you so riled up? First of all, I have to acknowledge that my post on the people not being friendly in this forum as inaccurate. I should not have cast all in the same light. I was referring to specific person like MikeH. His replies are uttering useless and a total waste of my internet bandwidth.

And see, I did show my contrition by saying I know she doesn’t see foreigners at all in Tora and I know I have ZERO chance. But my point is that I want to meet her in person, she’s retired now so meet and greet is out of the question. I couldn’t have done that during her active days as i am not based in Japan. I will be in Tokyo soon and thats why I hope I can get a chance to meet her in person.

Yes, I was not specific enough in saying that I would compensate people for helping me make an enquiry in Japanese. If there is anyone who would help me with this, please DM me, I would gladly compenstate you for all your efforts.
In all honesty, your churlish and immature behaviour on this board is both why you reap the responses you do and also why nobody is willing to help you.

You've demonstrated repeatedly that you're exactly the kind of boorish buffoon that has no respect for the limits and rules of the Japanese P4P world, and people like you are the very reason that many shops and providers refuse to accept foreign clients.

Based on your behaviour here, for any of us to introduce you to any agent or agency with whom we have a relationship would be for us to burn that bridge for ourselves.
 
why are you so riled up? First of all, I have to acknowledge that my post on the people not being friendly in this forum as inaccurate. I should not have cast all in the same light. I was referring to specific person like MikeH. His replies are uttering useless and a total waste of my internet bandwidth.

And see, I did show my contrition by saying I know she doesn’t see foreigners at all in Tora and I know I have ZERO chance. But my point is that I want to meet her in person, she’s retired now so meet and greet is out of the question. I couldn’t have done that during her active days as i am not based in Japan. I will be in Tokyo soon and thats why I hope I can get a chance to meet her in person.

Yes, I was not specific enough in saying that I would compensate people for helping me make an enquiry in Japanese. If there is anyone who would help me with this, please DM me, I would gladly compenstate you for all your efforts.
You can not use middledicks to get VayGeena in Japan. Read the forum.
 
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In all honesty, your churlish and immature behaviour on this board is both why you reap the responses you do and also why nobody is willing to help you.

You've demonstrated repeatedly that you're exactly the kind of boorish buffoon that has no respect for the limits and rules of the Japanese P4P world, and people like you are the very reason that many shops and providers refuse to accept foreign clients.

Based on your behaviour here, for any of us to introduce you to any agent or agency with whom we have a relationship would be for us to burn that bridge for ourselves.
I accept your point of view. Out of curiosity, why is vaginal sex allowed in soap lands but not establishments like Tora?
 
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I accept your point of view. Out of curiosity, why is vaginal sex allowed in soap lands but not establishments like Tora?

Sorry, got a bit angry.

- Soaplands don’t allow sex. There is a legal loophole that basically allows the provider at the soapland to fuck you because she “falls in love with you” in the bathing establishment. I have heard in fact that if the cops raid while you are balls deep in a provider at a soapland you can face legal action.

- Delivery Health follow a different set of rules. The shop specifically threatens legal action for pursuit of sex during this service, so the legal loophole doesn’t work so well.

Different shop types, different rules. Does that make sense? 🥷🏿
 
If you keep feeding feral animals, they keep coming around. Stop responding to this retard and he'll eventually go away and back to his other hobbies, like driving an ice cream truck around elementary schools and getting his ass beaten up by strip club bouncers for harassing the girls.
 
If you keep feeding feral animals, they keep coming around. Stop responding to this retard and he'll eventually go away and back to his other hobbies, like driving an ice cream truck around elementary schools and getting his ass beaten up by strip club bouncers for harassing the girls.
Feeding him just makes it worse. Shouldn’t each response be, RTF?. STF? STN? In other words, he should search for the information like the rest of us.
 
Thanks
Sorry, got a bit angry.

- Soaplands don’t allow sex. There is a legal loophole that basically allows the provider at the soapland to fuck you because she “falls in love with you” in the bathing establishment. I have heard in fact that if the cops raid while you are balls deep in a provider at a soapland you can face legal action.

- Delivery Health follow a different set of rules. The shop specifically threatens legal action for pursuit of sex during this service, so the legal loophole doesn’t work so well.

Different shop types, different rules. Does that make sense? 🥷🏿
Thanks, appreciate your response. :)
 
Feeding him just makes it worse. Shouldn’t each response be, RTF?. STF? STN? In other words, he should search for the information like the rest of us.
since I have internet bandwidth to waste, let me quote you to tell you that you are another useless twat with useless response. Just try to put your dick into your mouth to occupy your time, instead of wasting it by giving pointless replies.
 
since I have internet bandwidth to waste, let me quote you to tell you that you are another useless twat with useless response. Just try to put your dick into your mouth to occupy your time, instead of wasting it by giving pointless
I’m not the one who needed requiemmorrow to find out the answer to your question. So if anyone is useless, it’s not me. I gave you the most useful response of any of the members. What Req said is already posted everywhere and easy to find. And what he said has been regurgitated thousands of times. I take you to be a bit lazy and certainly you are a bit wasteful if you have all that bandwidth and used it to respond to me, but not Keihan. What K said should have irked you enough to skip my meager existence in here.

Rather than attract negative attention, go search for this yourself. More than likely, you could find even more info on Reddit under how to treat DFB Syndrome. You got a bad case of it.
 
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I'll try to respond to OP in good faith.

I accept your point of view. Out of curiosity, why is vaginal sex allowed in soap lands but not establishments like Tora?
Before visiting any country, do read up on the local customs, faux pas, common mistakes made by tourists and fresh-off-the-boat folks coming to work/study, and the laws since what is legal is one place isn't in another country (Especially if you're going to p4p!). If you have time to pick up the language, try to do so. If you've done the research and relevant reading, many things become apparent. If you still have time, do read up on a bit of history, at least about the sex industry in that country. Spend weeks if not months just reading on and off, example: have time on your commute to/from work? Use your mobile phone and read up more. Find an interesting article but don't have time to read it now? Bookmark it and read it another day.

It's not just this forum, but it every area of life it seems when I ask people to research, study and think for weeks or months before doing something (assuming there's no rush), they balk at it or say it's too much effort. On a semi-related note, an ex-colleague back in my home country waited two years for the borders to re-open and did nothing to find out more about Japan. :facepalm:

Really put in the effort, then if you have questions that's fine. Say that you read this and that, link articles online or other posts on this forums, and seek clarification - show that you've put in effort, have trouble understanding, and thus need help. People will be more willing to help in such situations, and do so in a civil manner. This goes not just for this forum, but life in general.

On the matter of the AV star, it's fine to have favourites but don't be too attached to it. AV stars, providers, they will likely retire from the industry before you stop p4p (unless someone intends to stop p4p after that experience). Think about it, in life we often have a favourite cafe/restaurant/bookshop/relative, or even a dream job we think we can stay in until retirement. Everything is temporary, shops will close, providers will retire, maybe when I cross the street later to get an evening discount bento from the supermarket I'll get knocked down by a car and die. Learn to let go. There are many AV stars, for every favourite AV actress, there will be at least a couple more attractive ones, and likely dozens more non-AV girls who are more attractive and possibly provide better p4p service.

Instead I suggest having a more general goal, example "i want p4p in Japan, CFS, BBBJ, etc. If it's with an AV actress that'll be great but I'm happy just to have a good time with a hot JP girl". Learn patience, get used to the p4p scene in Japan. Get some experience, good and bad, cheap, mid-range, high end shops. Slowly build your way up. During my first p4p with an AV actress, I didn't know she was one. The experience was one of the more forgettable ones, and only knew she was in AV a few weeks after the encounter (if other readers are curious who it was, I've attached a picture of her card from the session back then - she's retired now I think)

OP, for the sake of your own mental health seriously just let go, it's not worth it to have such a specific goal in life. Adjust goals and expectations as more information comes in from your reading/research.
 

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I guess many members at TAG already have said so many times that only at Soaplands sex in guaranteed.
In deriheru it could happen but is not guaranteed that it will happen, even one guy can get lucky and have sex with a provider and other guy can meet with the same girl and she will refuse to have sex.
I have used Tora no Ana 3 times. I will not say which girls I have seen, a regular one and 2 AV girls (both very famous).
Please, do not use Tora no Ana if you are looking to have sex with an AV Idol because IT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!!!!
You can get easily blacklisted, and you can affect others foreigners with your behavior. It's very likely that the girl will refuse to accept any foreigners after having a that experience with you.

If having sex is a must for you, please go to a Soapland or arrange a meeting with an independent Escort. There are many nice and great looking escorts listed here at TAG, surely as good or perhaps better than an AV idol.
Believe me, not all the girls that you see at adult videos are as good in sex as you see on screen.

Please do not try to "bend the rules". You will suffer the consequences and unfortunately other foreigners will suffer because of your bad behavior.
Not sure why foreigners still flock to KetsuNoAna when they charge you a gaijin fee. If you can speak Japanese, there's better HIGH QUALITY delivery health shops with better women and better options that DO NOT charge gaijin fees.
 
I'll try to respond to OP in good faith.


Before visiting any country, do read up on the local customs, faux pas, common mistakes made by tourists and fresh-off-the-boat folks coming to work/study, and the laws since what is legal is one place isn't in another country (Especially if you're going to p4p!). If you have time to pick up the language, try to do so. If you've done the research and relevant reading, many things become apparent. If you still have time, do read up on a bit of history, at least about the sex industry in that country. Spend weeks if not months just reading on and off, example: have time on your commute to/from work? Use your mobile phone and read up more. Find an interesting article but don't have time to read it now? Bookmark it and read it another day.

It's not just this forum, but it every area of life it seems when I ask people to research, study and think for weeks or months before doing something (assuming there's no rush), they balk at it or say it's too much effort. On a semi-related note, an ex-colleague back in my home country waited two years for the borders to re-open and did nothing to find out more about Japan. :facepalm:

Really put in the effort, then if you have questions that's fine. Say that you read this and that, link articles online or other posts on this forums, and seek clarification - show that you've put in effort, have trouble understanding, and thus need help. People will be more willing to help in such situations, and do so in a civil manner. This goes not just for this forum, but life in general.

On the matter of the AV star, it's fine to have favourites but don't be too attached to it. AV stars, providers, they will likely retire from the industry before you stop p4p (unless someone intends to stop p4p after that experience). Think about it, in life we often have a favourite cafe/restaurant/bookshop/relative, or even a dream job we think we can stay in until retirement. Everything is temporary, shops will close, providers will retire, maybe when I cross the street later to get an evening discount bento from the supermarket I'll get knocked down by a car and die. Learn to let go. There are many AV stars, for every favourite AV actress, there will be at least a couple more attractive ones, and likely dozens more non-AV girls who are more attractive and possibly provide better p4p service.

Instead I suggest having a more general goal, example "i want p4p in Japan, CFS, BBBJ, etc. If it's with an AV actress that'll be great but I'm happy just to have a good time with a hot JP girl". Learn patience, get used to the p4p scene in Japan. Get some experience, good and bad, cheap, mid-range, high end shops. Slowly build your way up. During my first p4p with an AV actress, I didn't know she was one. The experience was one of the more forgettable ones, and only knew she was in AV a few weeks after the encounter (if other readers are curious who it was, I've attached a picture of her card from the session back then - she's retired now I think)

OP, for the sake of your own mental health seriously just let go, it's not worth it to have such a specific goal in life. Adjust goals and expectations as more information comes in from your reading/research.
Thank you for your advice. I appreciate your response.
 
I'll try to respond to OP in good faith.


Before visiting any country, do read up on the local customs, faux pas, common mistakes made by tourists and fresh-off-the-boat folks coming to work/study, and the laws since what is legal is one place isn't in another country (Especially if you're going to p4p!). If you have time to pick up the language, try to do so. If you've done the research and relevant reading, many things become apparent. If you still have time, do read up on a bit of history, at least about the sex industry in that country. Spend weeks if not months just reading on and off, example: have time on your commute to/from work? Use your mobile phone and read up more. Find an interesting article but don't have time to read it now? Bookmark it and read it another day.

It's not just this forum, but it every area of life it seems when I ask people to research, study and think for weeks or months before doing something (assuming there's no rush), they balk at it or say it's too much effort. On a semi-related note, an ex-colleague back in my home country waited two years for the borders to re-open and did nothing to find out more about Japan. :facepalm:

Really put in the effort, then if you have questions that's fine. Say that you read this and that, link articles online or other posts on this forums, and seek clarification - show that you've put in effort, have trouble understanding, and thus need help. People will be more willing to help in such situations, and do so in a civil manner. This goes not just for this forum, but life in general.

On the matter of the AV star, it's fine to have favourites but don't be too attached to it. AV stars, providers, they will likely retire from the industry before you stop p4p (unless someone intends to stop p4p after that experience). Think about it, in life we often have a favourite cafe/restaurant/bookshop/relative, or even a dream job we think we can stay in until retirement. Everything is temporary, shops will close, providers will retire, maybe when I cross the street later to get an evening discount bento from the supermarket I'll get knocked down by a car and die. Learn to let go. There are many AV stars, for every favourite AV actress, there will be at least a couple more attractive ones, and likely dozens more non-AV girls who are more attractive and possibly provide better p4p service.

Instead I suggest having a more general goal, example "i want p4p in Japan, CFS, BBBJ, etc. If it's with an AV actress that'll be great but I'm happy just to have a good time with a hot JP girl". Learn patience, get used to the p4p scene in Japan. Get some experience, good and bad, cheap, mid-range, high end shops. Slowly build your way up. During my first p4p with an AV actress, I didn't know she was one. The experience was one of the more forgettable ones, and only knew she was in AV a few weeks after the encounter (if other readers are curious who it was, I've attached a picture of her card from the session back then - she's retired now I think)

OP, for the sake of your own mental health seriously just let go, it's not worth it to have such a specific goal in life. Adjust goals and expectations as more information comes in from your reading/research.
Someone should pin this comment somewhere, it's quality advice not just for us newbs, but for damn near everyone looking to do P4P anywhere.
 
I'll also leave my two cents, from my brief experience with this forum and from the few P4P experiences I've had here, the vets are absolutely right especially when trying your luck with the higher end actresses, or even shops for that matter.

Sure you can get lucky and have some quality time with someone who has appeared in JAV (Review pending approval on that unexpected experience) but I also harbour ambitions to go with someone currently working in AV or even a popular actress.

Now, is this a hard goal? Yes it bloody well is, but it's also challenging me to improve my Japanese and my social skills generally (I'm not a social butterfly for the record, more an iRacing nerd currently ready Kaguya-Sama: Love is War) so if even I fall flat with the main goal, I can hopefully be proud with the progress I've made with everything else surrounding it

And whilst I know the hurdles that lay in front of me and the barriers I have to deal with (like striking out 95% of the NS shops) I personally enjoy the challenge and hopefully one day completing that goal.

So look, it's not crazy to have a goal, but if your looking at a very specific target and that target is covered with 外銀 X stickers around it, then it's time to either broaden the goal or drop it completely.

Apologies for making it personal, but I hope my goal is an reasonable example to make.
 
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