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Sure, Americans in movies are perfection, but most tourists you encounter in Tokyo are disgusting overweight, horribly clothed uncool slobs.
Not just Americans.

I saw some Europeans that looked like they crawled out of a bag in storage in the plane. Also, disgustingly overweight seems to be the new black now. Even dirty pigs like myself can land a good looking lady.

These are interesting times we live in fellas.
 
when i first came here to be an english teaching monkey at age 24, i didnt speak a single word of japanese, and was fucking girls in the 21-25 yo bracket within about 48 hours of being here.
In 1990 or thereabouts, with around 3 million foreign visitors a year, being visibly foreign was a guarantee of women wanting to sleep with you because there were very few of us - simple market economics, scarce resource is desirable.

In 2019 there were more than 30 million foreign visitors to Japan. Gaijin aren’t a novelty anymore, and on top of that there’s roughly 1000% more competition for the Japanese women who have an interest in foreign men.

The tables have turned, and Japanese women who have an interest in foreign guys are the scarce resource. And they know it.
 
Not just Americans.

I saw some Europeans that looked like they crawled out of a bag in storage in the plane. Also, disgustingly overweight seems to be the new black now. Even dirty pigs like myself can land a good looking lady.

These are interesting times we live in fellas.
Sorry, the statement was aimed at tourists in general.....I never understood why tourists think being guest permits you to run around in shit that looks like you crawled just right out of your bed.
Osaka is crowded with tourists of every nationality....it's a fucking shitshow 🤣....wtf man
 
Sorry, the statement was aimed at tourists in general.....I never understood why tourists think being guest permits you to run around in shit that looks like you crawled just right out of your bed.
Osaka is crowded with tourists of every nationality....it's a fucking shitshow 🤣....wtf man
Yeah i was in a few different tourist spots last weekend.

Basically fat white people wearing clothes several sizes too small, and loud asian people in groups that can never stay within polite speaking distance of each other so carry out all conversations by shouting through whoever is unlucky enough to be in their area.
 
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I got an offer from a japanese, english speaker on seeking to do what I want for 700, but its a bit higher than I want so ill keep looking for now.
How did you confirm she’s Japanese and not Chinese, Korean or Filipina? Possible, I guess, but sounds a bit un-Japanese.
 
To add: Filipinas are different, but it often takes experience to recognize Chinese/Korean girls who have been here for a while. They look Japanese, behave Japanese and speak Japanese.
 
Western tourists in Japan these days seem to fall into one of two general buckets in my experience:

1. Young-ish (late 20s to 30s) couples, athletically fit. Man usually has facial hair and always 90% chance at least one of them has tattoos usually an arm sleeve. I think the ubiquity of these kinds of foreigners in Japan may be the reason why so many Japanese assume almost all foreigners have tattoos.

2. Stereotypical weebs in Japan for the fantasy and the anime. They come home and write about how incredible Japan is and probably often make up the next class of English teachers arriving in a couple years.
 
To add: Filipinas are different, but it often takes experience to recognize Chinese/Korean girls who have been here for a while. They look Japanese, behave Japanese and speak Japanese.

Just ask which country of the disputed islands do they belong to and its a dead give away. Dokdo/Takeshima for Korea and Daiyou/Senkaku for China.
 
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In 1990 or thereabouts, with around 3 million foreign visitors a year, being visibly foreign was a guarantee of women wanting to sleep with you because there were very few of us - simple market economics, scarce resource is desirable.

In 2019 there were more than 30 million foreign visitors to Japan. Gaijin aren’t a novelty anymore, and on top of that there’s roughly 1000% more competition for the Japanese women who have an interest in foreign men.

The tables have turned, and Japanese women who have an interest in foreign guys are the scarce resource. And they know it.
Not to mention that this entry of 10 times more foreigners has also exponentially multiplied the entry of assholes that make some Japanese women not want to know anything more about us.
 
Japanese women are all about Korean oppa these days. If you go to izakaya, bars or wherever else it's easy to socialise at, it's probably still not hard to get laid as a white guy even if you speak fuck all Japanese.

That being said, I highly doubt the type of girls being into this specific type of white guy are bombshells OP is looking for unless he's hot himself.

Also, as others pointed out, Japan is different. Japan is a highly developed country where women can earn proper amounts of money (outside of p4p) without having to rely on some foreigner's wads of cash. In Thailand, 70 bucks is a lot of money. In Japan, 70 bucks will pay for a woman's haircut maybe. The hot ones OP can and will be way more selective with guys, especially ones who do not speak their language.

But what the fuck do I know? I've not gotten laid here because I'm an insecure shitter and that last part is paraphrased from Sinapse I think and it might be total bullshit!
 
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In Japan, 70 bucks will pay for a woman's haircut maybe.

While I am not disagreeing with your post it is quite clear you have no idea how much girls pay for their haircuts. :ROFLMAO:
 
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You're right, I've no fucking clue. I just took what I pay and added a bit onto it LOL.
 
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Some of the comments on this thread are way too negative.

There are still a LOT of Japanese women who gravitate toward Western men, and it isn't about money most of the time. Many want to escape from the suffocating environment of Japanese society, and many are fed up with Japanese men. Once women hit 30 they quickly become unwanted among Japanese men, so foreigners are often their only choice other than being single forever.

On the other side of the equation, the supply of Western men in Japan is not much better than it was 20-30 years ago. The growth in foreign visitors has been driven by Chinese and other Asians, who are not a substitute for Americans or Europeans in most women's eyes. There are certainly more Westerners in Tokyo than there used to be, but most of them are older and married, and so many of the younger ones are slobs, or gay, or would rather play video games than deal with women. If you're a woman in Tokyo who wants to meet a decent-looking and moderately respectable white guy, your options are very limited.

The big catch with nihonjin chasing is that the vast majority are looking for LTR/marriage, so getting a one-night stand as a visitor is not easy unless you convincingly lie about your intentions (which I certainly don't recommend as a life strategy). And there's the language barrier, which is an issue, but everyone in Japan knows some English even if they suck at speaking it, and women who want a foreign dick inside them will find a way to communicate. Actually I think English ability in Japan is improving in recent years, as I seem to encounter more and more young people who are actually fluent.
 
Lol. No idea why youre being so hostile. In phillipines, metro manila, theres plenty of girls willing to meet for several hours raw for 70 USD total, let alone 70k yen you might find a girl willing to stay with you for a whole week.

I dont see how 70 0000 yen is cheap. Ive seen people on this forum talk about paying less than what im asking and getting it.

Instead of being hostile, you could have said something like "Personally I think 70k is a bit cheap, what youre looking for in my experience would be something more like: X"
Putting some things into perspective:
  • Average salary in Japan is above JPY 6 million per year, around $50k/year (depending on how shitty the exchange rate gets).
  • Average salary in Philippines is PHP 162k per year, around $3k/year
Offering $70 to someone who earns $3k/year is worth a lot more than offering $500 to someone who earns $50k, not even taking into account the diminishing returns for people with relatively good salaries.

Why would a woman take this insane risk of going bareback with a foreign tourist (who recently went bareback a bit all over Asia it seems) for what amounts to be not life changing money in any way?

I think the only way you can make this happen is either PUA style at HUB (a chain of foreigner friendly pubs all over Tokyo) or at (one of the very few remaining) Roppongi lounges like R2 where you'll probably meet a freelancing provider (who may be Chinese, but it will be impossible to tell without serious Japanese knowledge).
 
(who may be Chinese, but it will be impossible to tell without serious Japanese knowledge).

I know a guy who paid 800k jpy for a night with a geisha in Tokyo.

Of course the girl was a Chinese girl in an expensive kimono.
 
I think folks tend to forget that Americans are not the top of foreign marriages, Korea and China combined rate is doubled compared to Americans.

Just something to keep in mind that Americans aren’t as desired as they think they are.
 
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Some of the comments on this thread are way too negative.

There are still a LOT of Japanese women who gravitate toward Western men, and it isn't about money most of the time. Many want to escape from the suffocating environment of Japanese society, and many are fed up with Japanese men. Once women hit 30 they quickly become unwanted among Japanese men, so foreigners are often their only choice other than being single forever.

On the other side of the equation, the supply of Western men in Japan is not much better than it was 20-30 years ago. The growth in foreign visitors has been driven by Chinese and other Asians, who are not a substitute for Americans or Europeans in most women's eyes. There are certainly more Westerners in Tokyo than there used to be, but most of them are older and married, and so many of the younger ones are slobs, or gay, or would rather play video games than deal with women. If you're a woman in Tokyo who wants to meet a decent-looking and moderately respectable white guy, your options are very limited.

The big catch with nihonjin chasing is that the vast majority are looking for LTR/marriage, so getting a one-night stand as a visitor is not easy unless you convincingly lie about your intentions (which I certainly don't recommend as a life strategy). And there's the language barrier, which is an issue, but everyone in Japan knows some English even if they suck at speaking it, and women who want a foreign dick inside them will find a way to communicate. Actually I think English ability in Japan is improving in recent years, as I seem to encounter more and more young people who are actually fluent.
You may be overthinking it a bit here.
Men and women in their teens and twenties like to fuck, a lot, and often with people they dont know. I did a lot at that age. It was a challenge sometimes and it was easy sometimes. The better looking you are, the easier it is. Nationality is fairly irrelevant.
 
I think folks tend to forget that Americans are not the top of foreign marriages, Korea and China combined rate is doubled compared to Americans.

Just something to keep in mind that Americans aren’t as desired as they think they are.
Depends. Being desired for marriage and being desired to sleep with are two different things.

Also this is probably largely because of the quantity of those foreigners. The general Japanese person probably likes American people more than Korean or Chinese people.
But a lot of immigrants are from close countries. Chinese are the majority of the foreign students in Japan (or maybe Vietnamese these days). The whole class will be Asian with like two white people in it. Of course most marriages are gonna be to other Asians then. Does definitely not mean they are “desired”. Unless someone is a K-pop fan or fan of some Chinese pop culture, they probably don’t have a special desire to marry someone from there but it might just happen organically because they run into someone and fall in love with them in some way.
 
Most of those marriages to Chinese and Koreans are Japanese guys importing mail-order brides…