Wwanderer
Kids, don't try this at home!
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Do you ever actually interact in Japanese with girls you aren't plying with cash in some way? Whether they can be blamed on the instigator being non-Japanese is one thing, but there are some extraordinarily fearful and highly strung women about here. Now public enemy number one for talking to strangers in a Starbucks, I know this only too well!
Ww, forgive us if we get confused, because it appears your claimed specialty is buying women. And then apparently her being the perfect actress in proportion to cash being thrown at her. After that, you gave the impression of social circle magic, where you didn't have to do anything but focus on your hobby. And all the women just kind of magically gravitated towards your natural chrisma, interrupted your hobby activities, and approached you for a date. That's great if you got like that, but that doesn't happen for 90% of guys on planet Earth.
If you guys want to talk/ask about me and my interactions with women, that's fine (though I have no clue why you would be so interested); I'm happy to answer any questions you might have, but perhaps we should start a separate thread for the purpose.
However, I don't see how any possible fact about me bears on the question I asked you, namely, what do you mean when you say these (Japanese, let us never forget) women panic. Do the scream, hyperventilate, faint, burst into hysterical tears, scream profanities, throw crockery, put their best akido move on you, run away, require sedation...what are you saying they do? That's all I want to know. Panic is a strong word; do you really mean that strong a reaction. Or is it that they simply don't want to talk to you, much less date you, and that somehow translates to panic in your mind. Or is it something else you mean? You use the term so very frequently, surely you mean something by it.
And note that I was not talking only or even mostly about women interacting with me when I wrote this:
I can't reacll a single instance in my 25 years of experiences in Japan when I have seen a woman do what I would call panicing or greatly overreating to interactions with foreigners
Note bold emphasis. I've never observed what I would call panic in a Japanese woman's interaction with foreign men in general...me, my friends and colleagues, complete strangers, apparent nampa/PUA guys...not anyone. Nor can I recall hearing stories using that word from people I know outside TAG. I simply can't picture what you are describing.
Now I have experienced myself and witnessed countless times Japanese women who ignore foreigners or otherwise make it clear that they do not wish to interact with specific gaijin guys, but that is not what I would call panic. But maybe you would?
-Ww
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