SESTA/FOSTA Law Passage > What it means for TAG?

Sounds like all you information has come from American Reform Jews. I spent some years in yeshivas in the US & Israel and even though I’m no longer observant I can probably out reason any Reform Rabbi on matters of Jewish law.

Do you think the Reform rabbis would agree? And if not, who could we (outside Judaism) believe?

For whatever it is worth, my personal contact with Jewish religious life (via my in-laws) is mostly in the American Conservative Movement...but also some with those in the Reform Movement.

Here's an interesting account of how the way women are treated in American Conservative Judaism has changed during recent decades (just googled it up):

http://www.tifereth-israel.org/drash-women-bimah-how-ti-became-egalitarian

It is clear just from this one woman's life experiences that much has changed for the better and that Jewish religious life did not include women even remotely equally/fairly as recently as a few decades ago, well within my lifetime.

As for the ones who promote the addition to the Seder plate, I’ll venture to guess they aren’t familiar with the role of the Israelite women in the Exodus (hint: it was the men who were mostly scared to leave) nor would they be able to expound upon why the daughters of Lot were meritorious, the importance of Tamar prostituting herself, or the right of inheritance and the shares of the land of Canaan given to the daughters of Zelophehed.

Regarding sex and marriage, the Talmud goes on at length about a mans obligations to a woman, not the other way around. One point is that by Jewish law a man is obliged to see to a woman’s orgasm before his own.

That's all nice, but although you are not quite saying so explicitly, it appears that you claim that you are familiar with (maybe expert in) some sect/denomination/version/movement of Judaism in which women were not subjected to discrimination and bias. Do I have that right? Let me ask a few more specific questions about the (version of) Judaism you are discussing: Has it always allowed women the equal right to become rabbis? Cantors/hazzans? Have they always been counted toward a minyan? Have they always had bat mitzvahs? If so, have they always been equivalent or identical to the bar mitzvahs by which boys become men (in religious terms)? Have they always been as common on the bimah as men?

(For any readers still following this discussion but who are not familiar with some of the Jewish religious terminology above, let me translate one point that I find particularly shocking and offensive. Jewish law indicates that there should be at least ten Jewish adults present in a congregation for it to "function" and be valid, i.e., to allow the performance of religious ceremonies and rituals, including reciting of prayers and so forth. Having this group of ten is called having a minyan. Traditionally in all forms of Judaism with which I am familiar, women did not count toward this minimum quorum of ten throughout most of history. That has changed in many Jewish groups/sects in recent decades but is still the case in some. In other words, in most or all of traditional Judaism, women quite *literally* did not count as adult people for religious purposes. I don't know how one could be more explicitly and blatantly anti-woman than that! But perhaps @TheScientist knows about some form of Judaism in which women have always been counted toward a minyan. That's what I'm asking him above.)

If the answers to these questions are not "yes", and I'm fairly confident that they are not, then it seems crystal clear to me that the tradition regards women as some sort of lower class of person who should be denied full access to and participation in the religions most fundamental activities and responsibilities. I still stand by my generalization.

-Ww
 
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You are not up to date on the Great White North. There, the Johns now get arrested, the Does get free and can advertise what is illegal to buy.

Well, it is true that I haven't p4p'd in Canada for a good number of years now (hate to think how many), but I do have monger pals in NYC who make regular trips north of the border (mostly to Montreal) for the purpose...and rave about the scene. So, the new legal situation apparently hasn't (yet) completely ruined the option. These guys are quite experienced though and probably have good and reliable contacts there.

-Ww
 
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Do you think the Reform rabbis would agree? And if not, who could we (outside Judaism) believe?

My previous post was as much about how many American Jews (and for the last 30 years Conservative & Reform might as well be the same thing in the US) have lost/replaced traditional understandings of our people's ways in favor of the ways of the secular West. Assimilation was the intentional goal of the Reform movement from the beginning after all.

As for those outside, I'm sure you dont really care about our squabbles. But since we are a distinct culture (I share more culture with a a Tunisian Jew than an Englishman even I look more like the Englishman), again would you take advice on our culture from someone who isn't functional in the language? Its also a bit like people some Americans who read the plain text of the Bill of Rights and suddenly feel qualified to comment on matters of constitutional law. And no insult intended but your commentary is like that of a tourist who has visited a foreign land.

As far as the other matters go, whereas the common legal language of the West speaks of rights, ours speaks of obligations. Its a very different perspective.

This has now gone too far off track and I'm bowing out.
 
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So it seems like a lot of people, provider and client, are drifting over to Switter. Finally, Mastodon is useful for something other than anime pictures.
I have set up a Switter account, but mainly just to claim my name as a handle. I have no intention of using Switter unless I am banned from Twitter. I want to chat to everyone about all manner of subjects- not just escorts and potential clients and clients.
 
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At present, my website is hosted by Squarespace, which is American. I was fully expecting to have to move it to an Australian host server. However, this morning I received an email from Squarespace with their amended terms of service.

However, I have no idea what the laws of Ireland are, especially to do with advertising prostitution online. I remember reading somewhere that purchasing the services of an escort was illegal, however it is legal to actually be an escort. I’m so confused. Help!
 
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However, I have no idea what the laws of Ireland are, especially to do with advertising prostitution online. I remember reading somewhere that purchasing the services of an escort was illegal, however it is legal to actually be an escort. I’m so confused. Help!
Bottom line, it's safe. Just make sure you always have a backup plan, regardless.
 
But since we are a distinct culture (I share more culture with a a Tunisian Jew than an Englishman even I look more like the Englishman), again would you take advice on our culture from someone who isn't functional in the language? Its also a bit like people some Americans who read the plain text of the Bill of Rights and suddenly feel qualified to comment on matters of constitutional law. And no insult intended but your commentary is like that of a tourist who has visited a foreign land.

As far as the other matters go, whereas the common legal language of the West speaks of rights, ours speaks of obligations. Its a very different perspective.

This has now gone too far off track and I'm bowing out.

I agree that we should drop the topic and agree to disagree.

But in closing I'm afraid the "it's a different culture; you can't judge it" doesn't cut it for me on this issue (although it does on some). To shift the focus a bit to some parallels (which may offend you less), I would hold Christianity responsible for the evils of, say, the Inquisition even though it was almost certainly inconsistent with any sane understanding of the teaching of Christ and even though I know neither the original languages in which the Bible was written nor the language of the Christians who perpetrated the Inquisition. Likewise, I don't need to read the Koran, know Arabic or deeply understand the cultures of Islamic nations to know that women are treated very badly under Sharia (which is almost certainly inconsistent with the Koran according to many Islamic clergy and experts...but not others). I have personally witnessed women (including even my wife) being systematically treated in discriminatory and unfair ways (which they deeply resented) by Jewish clergy and other practitioners and based on religious justifications. The proof is in the pudding, not in readings of ancient scripture imo.

-Ww
 
View attachment 7338 At present, my website is hosted by Squarespace, which is American. I was fully expecting to have to move it to an Australian host server. However, this morning I received an email from Squarespace with their amended terms of service.

However, I have no idea what the laws of Ireland are, especially to do with advertising prostitution online. I remember reading somewhere that purchasing the services of an escort was illegal, however it is legal to actually be an escort. I’m so confused. Help!

@Mischa Maxwell , this means nothing to you, and I hope it means something to them. Whether the selling of sex is illegal depends on the country where you sell it.

However, a big part of your marketing is to protect your brand. Likewise, we need to make businrss continuation plans for when our suppliers are no more. If mischamaxwell.com is gone forever because squarespace gets in trouble with the American law, then you are screwed, and in this regard, that's not a good thing.


MAKE SURE YOU OWN MISCHAMAXWELL.COM AND THAT YOU CAN SWITCH MISCHAMAXWELL.COM AWAY FROM SQUARESPACE WITHOUT THEIR HELP AT ANY TIME.

Do you have an userid and password to the domain registration? Can you access and edit the mischamaxwell.com registration on Tucows?

If not, you are screwed when Squarespace is in trouble.

If yes, you can happily ignore the matter. If needed, you can host your site elsewhere, with no disruption of business.
 
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MAKE SURE YOU OWN MISCHAMAXWELL.COM AND THAT YOU CAN SWITCH MISCHAMAXWELL.COM AWAY FROM SQUARESPACE WITHOUT THEIR HELP AT ANY TIME.

Do you have an userid and password to the domain registration? Can you access and edit the mischamaxwell.com registration on Tucows?
I suggest caution here. If you DIRECTLY own the domain, then the personal information about the domain owner can be discovered. That means YOUR personal information.
So you have to balance that risk against the risk of trusting someone else to own your domain for you whilst keeping your personal info private.

Domain registration is built on a concept of open sharing / discovery not privacy so understand the risks and ultimately you likely have to trust someone.
 
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I just read about Protonmail as a safer alternative for sexworkers. I never heard about it before. Anybody out there using this mail service?
 
I suggest caution here. If you DIRECTLY own the domain, then the personal information about the domain owner can be discovered. That means YOUR personal information.
So you have to balance that risk against the risk of trusting someone else to own your domain for you whilst keeping your personal info private.

Domain registration is built on a concept of open sharing / discovery not privacy so understand the risks and ultimately you likely have to trust someone.

Run a whois on Mischamaxwell.com, and you will see a privacy protection service. They don't own the domain. Having someone else own your domain is an invitation to being owned.
 
Run a whois on Mischamaxwell.com, and you will see a privacy protection service. They don't own the domain. Having someone else own your domain is an invitation to being owned.
That is my point; there is a trade off between owning your own domain and having your personal information associated with it, and trusting someone else to own the domain for you but possibly losing control of it.
 
I just read about Protonmail as a safer alternative for sexworkers. I never heard about it before. Anybody out there using this mail service?
It about as good as it’s going to get short of running your own mail server.
 
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I just read about Protonmail as a safer alternative for sexworkers. I never heard about it before. Anybody out there using this mail service?
Protonmail is end-to-end encryption, and as such, it requires that both sides use it. If customer and supplier both have it, by all means, use it. Won't work for casual comms.
 
That is my point; there is a trade off between owning your own domain and having your personal information associated with it, and trusting someone else to own the domain for you but possibly losing control of it.

You don't seem to understand how privacy protection works. They don't OWN your domain, they simply mask your identity.

You can own your domain and protect your identity with that service. They work like P.O. boxes
 
Protonmail is end-to-end encryption, and as such, it requires that both sides use it. If customer and supplier both have it, by all means, use it. Won't work for casual comms.
Is that possible? I just made a brief check and found two TAG independents with ProtonMail contact addresses. Do you say that they can only be contacted by clients also on ProtonMail?
 
Is that possible? I just made a brief check and found two TAG independents with ProtonMail contact addresses. Do you say that they can only be contacted by clients also on ProtonMail?
No. That’s not what that means.

End to End encryption only works if it’s done on both sides. But, really, is all this encryption needed for p4p? No.

Not everyone will or want to use protonmail and I’ve seen providers proclaim they won’t speak to anyone not on Protonmail... good luck with that.