Value and danger of reviews

[Frenchy]

I am only half-white, so sort of, sure, but given how white I look, it's just another losing battle for me.

Naaah , half-white is non-white
Eg, Obama, T.Noah etc . Congrats! You get a pass!

 

[Pudding]

Naaah , half-white is non-white
Eg, Obama, T.Noah etc . Congrats! You get a pass!

I'll pass.

 

[Cinnabums]

Does half Dutch and half Swedish qualify as half? 😉

 

[MikeH]

Does half Dutch and half Swedish qualify as half? 😉

Usually that would not make a half, but one full tall white boy.

Though in all seriousness the subject deserves I have asked this from many Japanese and they claim any two nationalities will make a half.

Which would then pretty much make half of all Europeans half. Wait, is that a quarter then?

 

[Cinnabums]

Maybe when posting reviews along with rating and if you are getting the providers permission a note as to weather they are gaijin friendly, foreigner friendly or even understanding.

Those that act disrespectfully on purpose or out of ignorance really hurt things for all however the more people are educated the more the world opens up for all as good behavior is k own and can be practiced.

Respectfully!!

Thanks for a proper answer and I have implemented some of this in my most recent reviews. I always check with shop and provider about posting here and I only visit places we're Japanese is required to some extent, will also mention that in all my reviews from now on.

 

[LikeBunnies]

Thanks for a proper answer and I have implemented some of thid in my most recent reviews. I always check with shop and provider about posting here and I only visit places we're Japanese is required to some extent, will also mention that in all my reviews from now on.

This is awesome!
When in the states, my wife is the attractive foreign magnet to everybody who wants to experience being with an Asian.

When in Japan, we have been to most every Happening Bar/Caffee Kissa where I have had amazing experiences of being the foreigner, and truly left every experience hoping to leave a good impression in terms of respect and fun.

I would want to leave the same impression with any human being weather by chance meeting or any sort of arrangement. There is something to be said for being good humans to each other.

 

[Cinnabums]

Usually that would not make a half, but one full tall white boy.

Though in all seriousness the subject deserves I have asked this from many Japanese and they claim any two nationalities will make a half.

Which would then pretty much make half of all Europeans half. Wait, is that a quarter then?

I have gained access to a full blown racist soap land thanks to permanent visa and being half. Also helps become friendly with both providers and touts. Review will not be published. Hate to support racist yakuza businesses but like the challenge of treading new waters.

 

[CharlieSimms]

I have gained access to a full blown racist soap land thanks to permanent visa and being half. Also helps become friendly with both providers and touts. Review will not be published. Hate to support racist yakuza businesses but like the challenge of treading new waters.

Or could it be that it is just your sexy little ass that opens these doors? 😉😘

 

[requiemmorrow]

I have gained access to a full blown racist soap land thanks to permanent visa and being half. Also helps become friendly with both providers and touts. Review will not be published. Hate to support racist yakuza businesses but like the challenge of treading new waters.

I am tempted to "rise" to this challenge.

 

[Cinnabums]

I am tempted to "rise" to this challenge.

Lets do it! One new SL listed as racist here monthly, sounds ok to you?
I guess starting the challenge January 2023 is a good idea, anyone else wanna join?

 

[Cinnabums]

This settles it!

Some idiot obviously fucked up due to a positive review, don't expect more positive reviews from me in the near future.

I have a few waiting to be published.

I might be wrong but review was posted Friday and she was still catering to gaijin on her profile page on Sunday. It is also one of the reviews that has created most traffic in the last batch.

 

[Danbo]

Here we go again.....stuff like this just pisses me off.

There was a reason I was always cautious about stuff that seemed kinda problematic in the open forums.....but it seems even harmless reviews can cause harm. Why are there so may idiots around. Just baffeling.

 

[CharlieSimms]

This settles it!

Some idiot obviously fucked up due to a positive review, don't expect more positive reviews from me in the near future.

I have a few waiting to be published.

A wise man here once said “we cannot have good things”. Seems to be the case.

 

[Doggyfong]

This settles it!

Some idiot obviously fucked up due to a positive review, don't expect more positive reviews from me in the near future.

I have a few waiting to be published.

Japan just opened up, might not be someone here. Might just be some random dumbass that ruined it.
All we can do is wait and see... Twitter/CH diary hasn't posted anything yet.
But yeah, slowing down on the reviews might be a good idea.

Your reviews are good, so might ask for your advise on which shops I can give a try for my next visits

 

[Cinnabums]

Your reviews are good, so might ask for your advise on which shops I can give a try for my next visits

Thanks!

But I am less likely to give advice and share anything at all after this fuck up though. I know you have always been cool though.

The time we invest in writing reviews to have it ruined by some lowlife is not worth it.

There is three reviews from me in the queue and then it's no more from me in the foreseeable future.

 

[YokoMonger]

Thanks!

But I am less likely to give advice and share anything at all after this fuck up like though.

The time we invest in writing reviews to have it ruined by some lowlife is not worth it.

There is three reviews from me in the queue and then it's no more from me in the foreseeable future.

Feeling the same. I'd like to think I build a decent reputation at shops I frequent as when I find a decent place I tend to stick with it. Would hate if something I wrote gave incentive to some asshole to ruin it for any future visits by people that know how to behave. Might just stick to reviews for shops that are fully foreigner friendly.

 

[MrDuBois]

Just when I got my first soapland experience, this happens and everything crumbles...

 

[Doggyfong]

But I am less likely to give advice and share anything at all after this fuck up though

Understandable, will just have to do more of my own research in the future.
Gotten me this far. Found my gem that makes me wanna repeat her until she quits.

Exploration outside of central Tokyo might be somewhat tough next trip, but meh.
It is what it is, things will work out somehow

 

[Danbo]

Just when I got my first soapland experience, this happens and everything crumbles...

Probably unavoidable that something goes wrong from time to time.....but it's just infuriating. People put in time to write reviews.....and in return they and everybody else get fucked over by some dumbass.

 

[Cinnabums]

Just when I got my first soapland experience, this happens and everything crumbles...

Highly unlikely but some of us just lost motivation to share, its easy using the search tool and above review has had 2000 views since published last Friday.

 

[MrDuBois]

I mean yeah, it is understandable because the possibility that someone read a review here and then went there only to fuck it up for everyone else is there but the possibility of it being completely unrelated is also there.

That being said, I have seen this forum being mentioned in a completely random reddit thread a few days ago...site is getting a lot of traction lately, perhaps.

 

[Doggyfong]

I have seen this forum being mentioned in a completely random reddit thread a few days ago

Perhaps only allowing registered members to view reviews might help a little, but damage has already been done.

 

[Danbo]

I mean yeah, it is understandable because the possibility that someone read a review here and then went there only to fuck it up for everyone else is there but the possibility of it being completely unrelated is also there.

That being said, I have seen this forum being mentioned in a completely random reddit thread a few days ago...site is getting a lot of traction lately, perhaps.

Sure, we are all jumping to conclusions without knowing what really happened. It could have many different reasons........hope this is just a singular event, but the more often stuff like that happens, the more it erodes trust in handing out information.

 

[Pudding]

Understandable, will just have to do more of my own research in the future.
Gotten me this far. Found my gem that makes me wanna repeat her until she quits.

I appreciate the community here, but I also recognize that reviews can have a net negative effect. Your approach is positive and self-sustaining: level up your skills, reach out to stores/providers on your own, and find your own path. Best of all, if people aren't willing to put in the work, there's no shortcut for them.

 

[requiemmorrow]

I haven’t written anywhere near as many reviews since October.

This is a reason why.

We have to have some sort of vetting or means to keep this information controlled if we are going to be able to share fuzoku information.

Without TAG, how many of us can confidently say we would have ever stepped into this world? I can say for sure I’d still been jerking off to JAV porn feeling miserable.