Jerks calling people names is not a valuable contribution to society.Jerks teaching jerks how to become bigger jerks is not a valuable contribution to society.
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Jerks calling people names is not a valuable contribution to society.Jerks teaching jerks how to become bigger jerks is not a valuable contribution to society.
It works if a person stays with it. Most don't put the effort into it. I say half give up after the first yr. This is the point where a person starts to change. This is the point where a person completes his 1000 approaches.
Its not about agreeing. Its the experience needed to become good at approach. The muscle memory of the whole body need to transform.Really?? Wow. Do all PUA agree and need to go through this?
Seems like a lot of time and effort to get laid for free. What sort of jobs and income do PUA have anyway? I would love to be an 'expert' in picking up women but I have better goals in life and free pussy isn't on the top of my list!
Maybe here's one new answer to @static 's question: PUA/gamers ***push***, preach, promote and of course sometimes literally market their ideas, beliefs, values, techniques, lifestyle etc much more aggressively than many other groups of highly sexually active people (e.g., p4p folks or swingers).
I was simply pointing out that comparing the virtues of PUA and P4P isn't a worthwhile endeavor. To put it bluntly, p4p really doesn't have beliefs, values, or techniques in the way that PUA does ( can't really comment on swinging, as I've never gotten into that scene). P4P you need money, and basic etiquette that you can more or less learn on your first trip to any establishment (at least I did, I remember being a nervous wreck when I called my first ad on craigslist back in the US). PUA is closer to a hobby like woodworking, dancing or martial arts in terms of volume of information. P4P, in getting more more money, like you mentioned is a method to get more P4P action, and as you noted a seminar would be "how to get more money" which exist in spades around the world (coincidentally, many are scams selling snake-oil, having been to a few ^^).I'd like to reply to this but don't think I really understand your point clearly.
And, of course, although your post seems to dismiss it as trivial, it does require significant amounts of money, and not every guy can manage that. I suppose a p4p boot camp might be about how to increase one's income!
Still, I'm not sure I answered you because I'm not sure what point you were making.
-Ww
Some guys get tired of it, some guys get married. I was personally in the game for 3-4 years before I got into a committed relationship. I know Sinapse has been going longer, but even he's calming down a bit, as well as others who have been in the game for awhile.Why is the turnover rate so high, do you think? Some PUAs/gamers (e.g., @Sinapse ) claim that it works so well for pretty much every guy who tries it, that I would have thought a low turnover rate would be implied. What fraction, would you guess or if you know, of the guys who try it find it worthwhile/useful enough to remain in the community for 3 years? Or for one year?
-Ww
You can just ask the women. In fact, you need not even ask; if you spend much time around women of the sort that PUAs/gamers tend to target, you will hear them comment on it without being asked.
The answer is that a substantial number do find it harassing and unpleasant, ranging from mildly to extremely. Other women do not.
Why is the turnover rate so high, do you think? Some PUAs/gamers (e.g., @Sinapse ) claim that it works so well for pretty much every guy who tries it, that I would have thought a low turnover rate would be implied. What fraction, would you guess or if you know, of the guys who try it find it worthwhile/useful enough to remain in the community for 3 years? Or for one year?
-Ww
So that would put the Get-the-chicks community on the same level as telephone solicitors and spammers?
Really?? Wow. Do all PUA agree and need to go through this?
Seems like a lot of time and effort to get laid for free. What sort of jobs and income do PUA have anyway? I would love to be an 'expert' in picking up women but I have better goals in life and free pussy isn't on the top of my list!
We come from all walks of life.Really?? Wow. Do all PUA agree and need to go through this?
Seems like a lot of time and effort to get laid for free. What sort of jobs and income do PUA have anyway? I would love to be an 'expert' in picking up women but I have better goals in life and free pussy isn't on the top of my list!
Women don't like men they aren't interested in approaching them. They don't know who they are interested in until after the approach is made. Women also say they love a good approach.
So you figure that one out. Should men simply not approach women because it might be slightly annoying to them for one second?
Women are here being told how they feel. I am pretty sure, dead certain actually, that there are significant numbers of women who would strongly disagree, especially with the statements that 1- they don't know which men they fancy until the men take the initiative and 2 - their annoyance is only slight and brief (and thus, implicitly, unimportant). However, obviously, if you want to know how women really feel about something you shouldn't ask them; you should ask some high level PUA/gamer who can explain their feelings and views to them. (For the sarcasm impaired, that last sentence means the opposite of what literally it says.)
Guy she doesn't like talking to her on the street= creepy nampa
Guy she does like talking to her on the street = destiny! Luck!
The distinction is only made AFTER it is clear which kind of guy he is. Namely, after he approaches. Given that, approaching is very reasonable.
If a friendly and attractive woman approaches you and says hello, you are going to spaz or freak out on her like she's a solicitor or spammer?So that would put the Get-the-chicks community on the same level as telephone solicitors and spammers?
This is both a startling and telling confession The self-styled master of this paint-by-numbers approach to lovemaking admits that he has to be a jerk 100 times to get laid one time. Desperation must be very high to follow these teachings.Sinapse approaches 100 girls who physically appeal to him.
A. 25 girls don't want to talk for whatever reason.
B. 25 more stop and chat, but Sinapse doesn't particularly like enough to get their number so excuses himself.
C. 25 more give him their phone number and the conversation fizzles out for wherever reason (due to either side)
D. 25 more come out on a date. Sinapse chooses to take some home and send others home. Some of the girls choose to come, others don't.
When I was your age, on a Sunday morning, I commonly woke up with a hangover next to two snoring beauties. What are you doing proselitizing PUA on TAG when you should be fucking?
This is both a startling and telling confession The self-styled master of this paint-by-numbers approach to lovemaking admits that he has to be a jerk 100 times to get laid one time. Desperation must be very high to follow these teachings.
When I was your age, on a Sunday morning, I commonly woke up with a hangover next to two snoring beauties. What are you doing proselitizing PUA on TAG when you should be fucking?
Hint: Your incessant and grating "PUA is holier than thou amoral P4P" won't make you many friends on a forum that is mainly dedicated to P4P. It's Sunday. Apparently, you don"t have anything sexier to do , so go to church already.And there is a difference between approaching people for money versus being genuinely attracted or interested in the person.
Why the hostility? He never insinuated that one was better than the other.Hint: Your incessant and grating "PUA is holier than thou amoral P4P" won't make you many friends on a forum that is mainly dedicated to P4P. It's Sunday. Apparently, you don"t have anything sexier to do , so go to church already.
Once with one. After he pissed off the whole island, and had more than a few bad-ass Samoans come after him.And I did wake up on a tropical island next to a pretty young French girl since you were wondering ^^
That's a point I can respect, but to remain consistent, you would have to share the same level of hate for those guys handing out tissue in front of the station, door to door mormons/jehovah's witness, izakaya advertisers, etc, etcBut in any case, you wrote "Bothering, yes. Annoying, yes...". Well, that's enough for me. I certainly don't think that people who knowingly bother and annoy strangers on a regular basis in pursuit of their own desires are behaving well, nor would I consider them to have an admirable hobby that leads them to self-improvement.
Actually, he's referencing what the women in this thread have said themselves here and in other threads. @User#8628 earlier mentioned she loves a good pick up, and there have been times where she's been approached, rejected him then noticed he was kind of cute and maybe shouldn't have rejected him.Women are here being told how they feel. I am pretty sure, dead certain actually, that there are significant numbers of women who would strongly disagree, especially with the statements that 1- they don't know which men they fancy until the men take the initiative and 2 - their annoyance is only slight and brief (and thus, implicitly, unimportant). However, obviously, if you want to know how women really feel about something you shouldn't ask them; you should ask some high level PUA/gamer who can explain their feelings and views to them. (For the sarcasm impaired, that last sentence means the opposite of what literally it says.)
-Ww
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I'm already tired of this forum. Maybe moving on to something else would be nice.
Thin-skinned, aren't we?Why the hostility?
I'm old. Gave up the booze and am down to waking up next to one sexy naked Japanese girl daily. If we want company, we rent .I wonder if you woke up with a hangover and two sexy girls today, too.
Couple things...Thin-skinned, aren't we?
I repeat, a real PUA laughs-off rejection, and his superior self-worth makes him be above criticism. Disappointed. I'm old. Gave up the booze and am down to waking up next to one sexy naked Japanese girl daily. If we want company, we rent .
@static: Since we are dispensing self-help advice: Wall'o'words are very much out of style. The demographic you target rarely reads beyond the first para. Video would be better.
Oh my goodness. Are you telling us you were 100% successful with any woman you approached. Come on bro, there is the fantasy and then there is reality of how things actually happen. 99.9% success rate is acceptable ;-)This is both a startling and telling confession The self-styled master of this paint-by-numbers approach to lovemaking admits that he has to be a jerk 100 times to get laid one time. Desperation must be very high to follow these teachings.
When I was your age, on a Sunday morning, I commonly woke up with a hangover next to two snoring beauties. What are you doing proselitizing PUA on TAG when you should be fucking?