Babaram
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Sorry, I had enough respect for you guys to assume you were both literate and had an attention span greater than a 5 year old. Perhaps I was wrong.
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Sorry, I had enough respect for you guys to assume you were both literate and had an attention span greater than a 5 year old. Perhaps I was wrong.
I make well over 5000000 JPY, up to 10 in a month.
Coming from money and working the family business.
I wouldn't generalise if I were you. Some people enjoy relationships that form organically.
Not that I have anything against mongers, or people working in the sex business.
Then again, I don't employ many tactics used by the PUA community, and I don't consider myself an artist in that sense.
Oh my goodness. Are you telling us you were 100% successful with any woman you approached. Come on bro, there is the fantasy and then there is reality of how things actually happen. 99.9% success rate is acceptable ;-)
Try intuition, feeling, social gracesSure it would be nice if I could live my life without annoying anyone but it's unreasonably strict to never to able to approach anyone. Then a guy could never go up to a girl in a bar. A shop could not distribute sales flyers.
Can you please explain and give an exampleTry intuition, feeling, social graces
I make well over 5000000 JPY, up to 10 in a month.
Coming from money and working the family business.
Try intuition, feeling, social graces
How could I know this without resorting to PUA-level stalking tactics?Then you see a man almost young, rich only in his doubts and with his life's work still in progress, accustomed to living in the solitude of work or in the retreats of friendship. He seems to be enjoying all those pleasures that you eschewed in your early life, with an easy and confident manner. He reminds you of what you once could have been, or wanted to be
If they see the men yes. In this case I'm talking about street / club approaches where the guy is coming in and the girl isn't expecting it.
On top of that, these are things which have been said to me, repeatedly, by women on this board and in real life. @User#8628 in this thread of course being the most recent to say she appreciates a good approach.
It is a simple fact that p4p requires money.
True enough.
And it is a simple fact (according to its proponents) that PUA requires a lot of money, effort and brutally unpleasant rejections.
But your point is...?
-Ww
Pick up artists are stupid people who can't do anything with their boring lives.
How can you fail to see the irony in your own sentence, ches...Pick up artists are stupid people who can't do anything with their boring lives.
You are conflating two situations I consider very different, street and club. Afaik VERY few women walk down the street or take trains or go into a Starbucks for the purpose of meeting men. When you approach women in those environments you are imposing your agenda and goals on them. However, in a club or bar, particularly certain types of bars, it is reasonable to suppose that she is there for the purpose of meeting men or at the very least can reasonably expect that men will be approaching her. I do NOT think that men approaching women in the latter type of venue is objectionable at all. I think there are some other reasonable objections to what @Babaram brilliantly described as a "paint-by-numbers approach" in those settings, but here we are mostly discussing the question of bothering/annoying women.
Absolutely there are women, such as @User#8628 (who, btw, is about as accepting and nonjudgmental a person as you could ever hope to meet...a trait even more attractive than her appearance, imo), who enjoy and appreciate good approaches. Equally absolutely there are those who do not; @User#16452 is the local TAG lady to balance against Alice's views. But we need not restrict ourselves to the hand full of women who are active on TAG threads; I have heard numerous women report their pleasure in being hit on in public places and numerous other women complain about it, sometimes bitterly. There are also surely people who appreciate being handed advertisements in the street and some who happily welcome religious proselytizers into their homes too. But that does not, imo, make it good behavior for such folks to knowingly bother and annoy those who don't like it.
-Ww
That's a point I can respect, but to remain consistent, you would have to share the same level of hate for those guys handing out tissue in front of the station, door to door mormons/jehovah's witness, izakaya advertisers, etc, etc
Bit the bullet and read the previous 6 pages of comments, ...
I feel very little - Nay, none whatsoever - shame nor guilt from approaching women in public. If you like you can call me a sociopath and be done with it, but any attempt to instill shame into me isn't really going to work. And perhaps you could tell women to stop banging me as well - though this isn't likely to work well either.
Relationships that form organically shouldn't require tactics.
And FYI, I'm impressed but not that impressed
Why DON'T you cold approach?
Pick up artists are stupid people who can't do anything with their boring lives.
Thanks, already have!Take the rest of the day off, pal; you deserve it!
-Ww