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justhavefun said:
the purpose of a message board is to make posts based on the subjects being discussed
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I completely agree, as the resident topicality police.

So you've now posted in an advertising thread about how expensive foreign escorts are, and posted in a thread about deletion of posts without notification about how this board doesn't represent Japan and how you can't find another woman that looks like your wife for group sex.

Are you seeing a pattern here, or just me?
 
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I really do not understand how this board works, because everything I do is judged.

Like I said, I will stop making posts to the forum and offer assistance privately to those who appreciate it.

You are a board moderator and nothing more.
 
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justhavefun said:
I mean you do not visit Japan to eat Mexican food do you?
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I don't, but if someone tells me he does I don't spend my time telling him how wrong he is. Different strokes et cetera.

I also don't visit Japan, I live here and occasionally I do take my dates to eat Mexican food. Because of that if someone tells me, in this board or otherwise, that they actually found a great Mexican restaurant I would be delighted.
 
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justhavefun said:
This is not a restaurant, its a message board and the purpose of a message board is to make posts based
on the subjects being discussed, I merely suggested that I felt it would be more appropriate for a foreign
escort to appeal to Japanese men, as we are in Japan and most foreign men who come to Japan want to
try Japanese.

I mean you do not visit Japan to eat Mexican food do you?
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As a person who likes to see forums that are open and allow discussions with little moderating, even I think you're missing the point!
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The main issue isn't really what you posted (though from the sounds of it, it was a tad rude?) but where you did it. You have questions or opinions on local providers, P4P fees, or the way the forum is organized, I'm sure you can either find the proper topic to do so or just make one.
 
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RandomTokyoGuy said:
I'm not sure why you pull that line completely out of context, but I begin to wonder if part of the problem might be language related.
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Where do you get the idea that its language related, I just feel more comfortable around Japanese. people.
 
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Where do you get the idea that its language related, I just feel more comfortable around Japanese. people.
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I get the impression that your command of the English language is not sufficient to fully comprehend what is posted. Either that or you are purposely ignorant.

As an example :
justhavefun said:
I mean you do not visit Japan to eat Mexican food do you?
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RandomTokyoGuy said:
To follow up your argument, just visit a Mexican restaurant in Tokyo. I'm sure you will find plenty of foreigners there.
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justhavefun said:
The last thing I have to say is that we are not interested in meeting foreigners and we had not expected to be treated the way we have.
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I didn't ask you to meet foreigners, I asked you to have a look at a Mexican restaurant in Tokyo, Japan. My bet would be you will see plenty of foreigners. Likewise there are plenty of foreigners in Tokyo interested in meeting foreign escorts.
It doesn't mean that you have to like either Mexican food or foreign women nor do I ask you to do either of the two.
 
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But the way you wrote it the first time, it was interpreted that you feel I need to be around foreigners, when the opposite is more the truth.
 
Moved all of the totally off-topic posts to its own thread from here.
 
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If you feel more comfortable around Japanese people, then I wonder what are you doing at an English speaking forum.

As I said before, stop picking at others for no reason. Take your wife to a delivery health or soapland of she is bi curious. What's the problem?
 
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I came here because I expected to find some thing different than I have experienced.

After our experience here we may very well invite delivery health to join us, but we had hoped to avoid that.

The Japanese women on the reviews here may appeal to visiting foreigners in their sleazy underwear, but that is not for my wife.
 
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But the whole idea of discovering something new is not to come with any prejudice. If you try to learn or discover something and you start judging it before fully understand it you defeat the purpose of the whole thing.

Everybody got their own story and preference, i just feel its a bit harsh to tell people of what they must do or like based on your own preference.

At the end of the day if you dont want to be judged then dont do it to others.
 
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aerialize said:
But the whole idea of discovering something new is not to come with any prejudice.
At the end of the day if you dont want to be judged then dont do it to others.
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We did not come here to discover some thing new, we came here with a preference and we were judged for expressing that preference.

We also found it strange that the bias is towards foreigners who do not understand Japan.
 
I suspect it would be different if you started your own post with what you are looking for. Instead of responding to an existing thread that was originally created with a different purpose.

If you are coming here looking for a specific thing, why not start a brand new thread?
 
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justhavefun said:
I came here because I expected to find some thing different than I have experienced.

After our experience here we may very well invite delivery health to join us, but we had hoped to avoid that.

The Japanese women on the reviews here may appeal to visiting foreigners in their sleazy underwear, but that is not for my wife.
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I guess you didn't find anything different on TAG than what you haven't experienced already. You could ask for help about what you and your wife want and see if anyone can help you with that. TAG has all sorts of people (living in Japan short/long terms, visiting frequently, visiting for the first time) contributing, and not everyone has the same experience. Most likely what you want isn't known or experienced by anyone here, so if you expect you will definitely get the answer you want then you might be disappointed.
 
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shafu said:
I suspect it would be different if you started your own post with what you are looking for. Instead of responding to an existing thread that was originally created with a different purpose.

If you are coming here looking for a specific thing, why not start a brand new thread?
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That had been our intention, but based on the lack of understanding of the Japanese culture expressed on the board, and the bias
towards what appeals to the foreign mind, we now feel that it would be inappropriate.
 
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Don't think it would be any worse than the responses you have been getting here. There's a term called "derailing" a thread. Unless this is your intention, it seems like most of the responses here are reacting to that.
 
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shafu said:
Don't think it would be any worse than the responses you have been getting here. There's a term called "derailing" a thread. Unless this is your intention, it seems like most of the responses here are reacting to that.
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It was never our intention to derail anything, we just assumed that its better to keep our posts within the threads they were for and not to create a new thread that would just get lost and never noticed, I mean if you look at the top of the page you will notice that there are over 38,000 new posts and this number changes very little each day, this would make reading through all of them impossible, as I have more important things to
do.
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