SW Orgasms

[MikeH]

Almost all clients would be willing i think...

I think you are thinking too much. Sometimes the reason you go with p4p instead calling up one of your girls is just because you are too drunk, tired or just not interested in spending a lot of time and effort to make someone else except yourself to come.

And when I write you I of course mean you, not myself. That's because I am so great in sex that girls come just by seeing my Beautiful One.

And when I say come I mean some of them come to their senses and run away never to be seen again.

 

[Hofmeyer]

Every lady is wired wildly differently down there, to put it mildly. I've had girls going nuts gyrating on my face from one thing, and doing the exact same thing to other girls just gets me this polite smile with a hint of "... the fuck is he doing down there?" on their face.

People have their opinions of course, but sex is a dance. The more you practice with the same partner the better the both of you get.

 

[jhingy567]

Sometimes the reason you go with p4p instead calling up one of your girls is just because you are too drunk, tired or just not interested in spending a lot of time and effort to make someone else except yourself to come.
And when I write you I of course mean you, not myself.

Right...
I wish that were true.

 

[Kaspar]

Girls don’t always orgasm, no matter how hard you try. That doesn’t prevent them from enjoying the experience though.

My modest proposal to guys is to be generous with your partner: massage her, go down on her... she will appreciate that and will let you know how much she did it.

 

[ShowaJidai]

be generous with your partner: massage her, go down on her... she will appreciate that and will let you know how much she did it.

Always work for a repeat customer. After all you do to get in that first time don't squander it with a weak performance. I've been with some women who were "meh" the first time but over time bloomed into unforgettable experiences.

 

[User#8628]

massage her, go down on her

Always appreciated

 

[RightOn6975]

In my reviews I would like to say yes nearly all the time. I do however expect that I am unable to please them as they are doing their best to please me. It's fun though to see the two of us just enjoying the moment though.

 

[Maxblack]

Not for me personally but for some girls it can take like 40 minutes... even if the time is not an issue, you may get cramps in your neck and your fingers and get impatient, lol

Exactly this. I don't actually know about other / most guys. I am personally more than happy to spend the entire time - 5 minutes working towards her orgasm, with complete confidence that I will ultimately be satisfied. But even with diligent instructions I don't know how capable I am with a woman whose body I am simply not too familiar with.

 

[Frenchy]

Exactly this. I don't actually know about other / most guys. I am personally more than happy to spend the entire time - 5 minutes working towards her orgasm, with complete confidence that I will ultimately be satisfied. But even with diligent instructions I don't know how capable I am with a woman whose body I am simply not too familiar with.

And some SWs dont even want an orgasm from their clients to start with .

 

[Maxblack]

And some SWs dont even want an orgasm from their clients to start with .

Shhh...don't ruin the fantasy.

 

[MikeH]

Shhh...don't ruin the fantasy.

Well, I have had several escorts tell me that directly too. I think it is just fair though. No sense in making me try if they are actively trying not to come, right?

 

[Maxblack]

Well, I have had several escorts tell me that directly too. I think it is just fair though. No sense in making me try if they are actively trying not to come, right?

Fair point. Reckon they are getting paid to focus on you so that kind of makes sense.

 

[BB0523]

Interestingly enough... nobody has mentioned the erogenous zones of a women in this thread... You must know the woman's body and be able to identify what is her "switch" so to speak.... different for many, but there are some commonalities... I won't go into details but if you take the time to learn generally what women like then your discussions can be more about how she likes it, not where. If the woman says she does not know... then maybe she really doesn't because in the P4P world lots of dudes... Get On, Get Off, Get Out... of course this is one aspect of the P4P world, but if you treat her like a GFE as many want her to treat the guy, then why not learn about her and add to your database of experience.. Learn on one to try on the next (or same one if you repeat) Just my opinion thoooo...
If women here agree, would be good to know...

 

[Maxblack]

So TAG needs to start collating a database: "so-and-so at agency xyz : rub her elbows but don't touch her knees. Gentle kisses on her cheek and then doggie. Other woman at agency ABC: daty for an hour then a shoulder rub in the bath..."

 

[RightOn6975]

Interestingly enough... nobody has mentioned the erogenous zones of a women in this thread... You must know the woman's body and be able to identify what is her "switch" so to speak.... different for many, but there are some commonalities... I won't go into details but if you take the time to learn generally what women like then your discussions can be more about how she likes it, not where. If the woman says she does not know... then maybe she really doesn't because in the P4P world lots of dudes... Get On, Get Off, Get Out... of course this is one aspect of the P4P world, but if you treat her like a GFE as many want her to treat the guy, then why not learn about her and add to your database of experience.. Learn on one to try on the next (or same one if you repeat) Just my opinion thoooo...
If women here agree, would be good to know...

Because every woman is different man. Just because one girl has erogenous zones on her nipples doesn't mean the next girl you see has the same zone, in fact she might not like you touching her nipples at all. It even boils down to DATY, just because a few girls like you going in licking and sucking away, does not mean the next girl likes that, maybe she wants to be teased and slightly licked in order to get off.

TL;DR Everyone is different and erogenous zones vary.

 

[BB0523]

Because every woman is different man. Just because one girl has erogenous zones on her nipples doesn't mean the next girl you see has the same zone, in fact she might not like you touching her nipples at all. It even boils down to DATY, just because a few girls like you going in licking and sucking away, does not mean the next girl likes that, maybe she wants to be teased and slightly licked in order to get off.

TL;DR Everyone is different and erogenous zones vary.

Thanks for the comments... I believe I did say different for many.... And up to the guy to find.........​

 

[Sudsy]

Just because one girl has erogenous zones on her nipples doesn't mean the next girl you see has the same zone, in fact she might not like you touching her nipples at all.

Exactly. From a smattering of recent partners:

1 preferred her whole breast firmly squeezed

1 preferred her whole breast gently squeezed

1 preferred her nipples (gently!) licked and sucked

1 preferred her nipples firmly pinched

1 preferred her (overly tender) breasts not be touched, and that I grab her ass instead.

 

[Frenchy]

Exactly. From a smattering of recent partners:

1 preferred her whole breast firmly squeezed

1 preferred her whole breast gently squeezed

1 preferred her nipples (gently!) licked and sucked

1 preferred her nipples firmly pinched

1 preferred her (overly tender) breasts not be touched, and that I grab her ass instead.

Damn, so complicated that masturbation looks more pleasant , eventually!

But seriously , I think it’s already hard enough to be relaxed and to feel satisfied at the first meeting , without on top of that adding pressure to oneself about whether she will come or not.
Over time however, with the same person you click with, and feel more at ease, and communicate better on likes/dislikes etc I know it’s something that can happen relatively naturally

 

[hawaiianhawk]

Both times I've been to Japan I have P4P and I'm pretty confident that both times the women orgasmed repeatedly. Not bragging, just saying. I think the key is they have to feel at ease with me since I am basically a stranger to them and vice versa. So from the time I open the door to greet them I am very polite, provide them with omiyage even though we've just met and provide them with the envelope. Many of my girl friends as well as girlfriends say I have a calming, non-threatening demeanor like we've known each other for awhile. From there it's just a matter of catering to their likes ie. giving them a massage, hitting certain erogeneous zones and see what works and what doesn't depending upon their response. If you're patient and cater to them, it'll pay back in the long run. That's why I always go for 3 - 4 hours bookings instead of 1-2 hours cause I like to cater to them for the first hour or so. Even though I am paying for the service and they are in this profession I'm sure they appreciate the efforts instead of just a wham bam thank you maam.

 

[jhingy567]

I'm not going to give details

What!? You dont want your clients giving you orgasms??

also, i like how you have a different picture for every day of the week.

 

[Sterling]

recently I can't help but laugh, reading comments like "She came twice in the first five minutes I was inside her" - even with a vibrator attached to my dick, i think it would still be quite a stretch.

I'm glad my comment gave you so much entertainment - however I recommend you meet the woman I was referring to, and judge for yourself. Everyone is different and some get there a lot easier than others. I remember one girlfriend I had many years ago who was certainly capable of that, and she definitely wasn't faking (in fact there were times she seemed more annoyed by it, but that's a whole other psychological study).

What I'm referring to is a female trait, not a male talent. If I actually had the ability I'd rent myself out for a hefty sum, but I don't.

 

[Sterling]

^^ Ha ha, and I just realized it wasn't even me who said that. But since I wrote the original thread, I can vouch that I had a similar experience. Which kind of proves my point anyway

 

[jelle]

The percentage depends on so many factors that it is impossible to answer. You can change the percentage in your favor if you choose providers and shops carefully.

1) the provider’s sensitivity is the most important. As many mentioned, some women can orgasm easily. It’s a lot easier to learn how women orgasm from females like this than with physically insensitive women. Marie of JEGC is quite sensitive as was Kagura of [Redacted] from a long time ago. However, if she is working frequent or long shifts (as Marie is now), she could be less likely to orgasm. If she just came back after an absence, she’s more likely to be in the mood. Are you her first client of the day or her fourth? If she has been working as a pro for many years, she might be less exicited than a new girl who just started and does it part time. Finally, her profile could give some hints. Girls that are M type seem to be more sensitive. Pururungang often notes girls that get wet easily. Other places note girls that like to give AND receive.

2) The type of shop. Providers at soap lands are having sex frequently. They’re used to it and expect it, which is making it less exciting for them. They use lube and other stuff that makes sex easier but sometimes less pleasurable. On the other hand, DH/HH providers often give but don’t receive. They have some agency in whether they receive, and thus, they might enjoy it more when they do.

3) the customer. I’d guess that when customers focus on trying to please the provider, it puts a lot of pressure on her to
convey ecstasy (whether she’s feeling pleasure or not). It might be easier to know her true feelings by approaching the act of pleasuring her indirectly. If your hand brushes her nipple when she kisses you, does she moan and/or shudder? When she’s doing BJ, is she wet? If you leave your hand there, does she rub on it or move away from it?

 

[User#8628]

Something to also consider is that guys when they try to "please" a girl often don't consider what girls actually like but they do what looks exiting to them.

Like, to a lot of guys, it looks way more fun to ram a big dildo in a girl's pussy over and over, and they probably think its boring to just gently rub around a girl's clit, and actually DON'T appreciate it when you tell them that THAT'S how you get off.

So a lot of guys who act like they want to do the girl actually want to make a porn show but you can not expect a girl to genuinely like it.

Sure, dildos sell well also for solo users and they can be a nice helper but for most girls its easier to get an "outside orgasm".

 

[MikeH]

So a lot of guys who act like they want to do the girl actually want to make a porn show but you can not expect a girl to genuinely like it.

Wait what? But... in the porn movies the girl always comes fast and furious when she is fucked hard by a bunch of old dirty guys who then cum in her face?