I will assume you want to be discreet about what city you are living in now...but I can't help but guess that it could be Shizuoka city? This is a super conservative city...like possibly the most conservative in the whole country haha. It is a beautiful city though with amazing food and hotties everywhere!
Nah, it's Hiroshima. Friendly people, but a bit on the conservative side.
I learned all my PUA from online and a book.
And many girls are definitely wise to the ultra-indirect if not mildly deceptive approach of faking needing directions or something, so being too indirect is unlikely to help either.
Well here's what it comes down to in many ways. Basically the way I see it, Japanese women (in particular) want to have some sort of security and assurance that having met the guy in public was "okay". For example, her girlfriends ask her "how did you two meet?" She says "Oh, he was lost and I helped him and we got to talking and hit it off." It sounds better than "Oh he approached and said I was cute so I gave him my number". Still, it just sounds too silly and closed-minded to me that they need this assurance, and that's why I'd love to dive into their minds and see what kind of rationalizations that have.
Someone said maybe it's about my texting. Well, I send 1 to 2 texts per day. In another country, I'd usually set the date within a few days. Here I might extend it out to one week. I simply ask questions about her, and answer her questions about me (if any are asked at all). Basically I can tell she's not interested by her initial lack of questions, so I don't think the problem starts when I text.
I'd argue that in both situations the girl would know I'm interested, but the indirect approach just might provide the needed excuse or justification that might ease the social pressure. However, I think it's a tradeoff. I think alpha females are used to guys displaying indirect actions to hit on them, and they'd probably find a confident, direct approach refreshing. If I were a girl and a guy was trying to hit on me indirectly and didn't show the balls to just say what he really wants, I'd be turned off as well (lol). So that's where I'm torn about how to approach the next one I find.
I'm not at the point of being depressed, and I can get a flow of dates from girls I met at international parties and the like. But what I'm only concerned about is when I find that rare one I'm really looking for and who seems to have been looking for me as well (which has usually been in public... and usually when we are crossing paths. But again, I didn't know pickup before so I never tried).
On a positive note, I've noticed that Japan has a lot of single beautiful women,.. and it just might be a result of the whole talking to strangers being looked down upon. Maybe an advantage for those of us willing to take risks and break social norms.
In case anyone is interested, I'll be trying different methods in the next few weeks and report my results (if I happen upon a girl who does it for me).
By the way, I appreciate all the advice. Staying on topic would also be appreciated!