Stateside service?

What do you say now, you deniers of how horrible the US is for sexual services?
http://backpage.com/
Backpage.com is no more! Shut down by the FBI -- and it was only a matter of time! BTW Craiglist Personals are also gone -- courtesy of some US Senators' anti-sex-trafficking bill. Things are only getting worse here, and this country is already a miserable Saudi Arabia in terms of sex. But I'm sure some of you will continue to rationalize and rebut my arguments from before.

I think proconsul is being both overly dramatic and rather self reighteous. New anti sex trafficking legislation in the US will indeed put a crimp on the P4P industry. Yes, BP has been shot down and TER has temporarily blocked access from IP addresses in the US. But agencies continue to advertise and indies will undoubtedly find other channels to make themselves known. Anyone who relied on Backpage for info on P4P in the US was in any case opening themselves up to scams and to bait and switch. My advice to fellow hobbyists in the US is to stick with known providers, preferably indies. P411 is a Canadian company so they will probably continue to operate and serve as a reliable source of screening for both clients and providers.

I don’t think anyone would suggest that ease and variety of the market in the US is anywhere near that of Japan, but to compare with Saudi Arabia is definitely hyperbole.
 
I had a lot of Saudi clients :) They usually fly to nearby cities like Dubai to have a night out, and certainly not deprived of entertainment. :D

P4P "in" Saudi Arabia works as a long term arrangement, you basically have to become one of the wives. It would be a cultural shock for most western girls. So it's a better idea to meet Saudi gentlemen outside of their country.
 
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P411 works for now, but don't forget about the Cloud act. Canada and the US are on relatively good terms, and all it would take is a little nudge to get Canada to cooperate and hand over the data on P411.

There is no real safe option, but has there ever been? Maybe they should take a page from how the dark net opperates and start using .onion domains or at the very least start using PGP encryption. I dont even know why nobody has thought of this and just insist on just using protonmail. Maybe it's a tad too daunting for those who arent as tech fluent? Theres nothing that can beat it though. Illegal black market transactions, drug transactions etc all use it, even the US government uses it so you know it actually works.
 
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Preferred411 is a .com domain, which can be seized by the U.S. government, no matter where in the world it is operated. They simply switch off the dns.
 
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Now that I've successfully popped my p4p cherry, but am depressingly back in the states, what kind of options are available in the US?

It's more or less nonexistent, right? I mean, escort services seem to exist here, but they can't and don't sell anything interesting, do they? Specifically on the east coast. New York city / Philadelphia area

Aside from Nevada, I'm going to have to travel to scratch this itch again, aren't I?

Can I urge you to register for Twitter, even if it is under a pseudonym? There are so many beautiful escorts in the US on there.

In light of FOSTA, girls that live in the US will probably have rebranded themselves as a ‘companion’, ‘model’, ‘consultant’, ‘lover’, etc.

However, girls that are based elsewhere (UK, Australia, Canada) and travel to the US may still include the term ‘escort’ in their bio.
 
P411 works for now, but don't forget about the Cloud act. Canada and the US are on relatively good terms, and all it would take is a little nudge to get Canada to cooperate and hand over the data on P411.

First, the CLOUD Act doesn't apply here because P411 doesn't do business in the US. It only applies for companies doing business in the US that hold data assets overseas. Secondly, everything that happens on P411 is legal in Canada, it's highly unlikely that the Canadian authorities would hand over any data no matter how friendly they are with US officials.

Preferred411 is a .com domain, which can be seized by the U.S. government, no matter where in the world it is operated. They simply switch off the dns.

It can be, but the only times that's happened for hobby sites is when the site owners were either actively involved in pimping and/or sex trafficking problems, neither of which are an issue with P411. P411 could just as easily move their page somewhere else, as many other sites have done even without being seized by the US Gov't (rubmaps moved to Switzerland, etc).
 
It can be, but the only times that's happened for hobby sites is when the site owners were either actively involved in pimping and/or sex trafficking problems, neither of which are an issue with P411. P411 could just as easily move their page somewhere else, as many other sites have done even without being seized by the US Gov't (rubmaps moved to Switzerland, etc).

I admire your optimism. I recommend to keep an eye on this rapidly developing situation.
 
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I admire your optimism. I recommend to keep an eye on this rapidly developing situation.

There's certainly a lot of changes for the worse recently, but having a hysterical response to it isn't helpful. I was a paid member of myredbook back in the day. It was seized by the feds and the owners thrown in jail. That was a US company hosting their site in the US taking money from US providers to publicly advertise sexual acts, and they never went after any of the 'rank and file' members. I've never once worried that the police were after me. Pretty sure I had a membership in the Seattle one that was busted back in the day, too.

Granted, under Trump all bets are off, but I wouldn't be surprised at all if they use the fear they've put in various adult sites as proof that they've done a good deed (meanwhile making it a lot more dangerous for those that are trafficked and consensual sex workers alike). But you really have to take Occam's Razor into account here. It would be far FAR easier to utilize stings in various cities to nail people that are registered on P411 than create an international incident in order to get records that don't really prove any wrongdoing happened. I was a registered member of a number of hobbying websites for years before I had the courage to go to an escort. And who knows how many reviews out there are fake?
 
This guy "meiji" mocked me several years ago in my original post for suggesting that the US was a Puritan hellhole. At that time, there were signs of a worsening commercial situation, which I pointed out, and no one took me seriously. I tried to draw the distinction between the religious US and the rest of the developed world, and predicted that the worst was yet to come. One thing you can count on is that the US will always go out of its way to ban or prosecute sexual activity -- always. Yet there was skepticism and disbelief on this forum. America is no different from other Western countries! You can always find AMPs in every city for sexual relief! No one's going to seriously go after the commercial scene, that would be insane!

You can hopefully see now who was right. The American commercial scene -- what little of it remained in the 2010s -- is now completely gone, including the discussion forum USASexGuide which is now trying to find a foreign server for hosting. Essentially, any website that even discusses prostitution is now liable for prosecution in the US, let alone advertises it. Prostitution can almost completely be eradicated this way.

I would like to point out one important fact to my fellow Americans. The people responsible for this calamity are Republicans. The bills were initiated by Republican lawmakers for the most part, and signed by a Republican president. I used to think that Republicans, despite their religiosity, stood up for men's rights. For example, Republicans are against feminism; many also describe themselves as libertarians. But this development proves otherwise. By and large, Republicans remain loyal to a religious, anti-sex agenda (despite the 'New-Republican' age of Trump), and will try to impose sexual restrictions on men.
 
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First, the CLOUD Act doesn't apply here because P411 doesn't do business in the US. It only applies for companies doing business in the US that hold data assets overseas. Secondly, everything that happens on P411 is legal in Canada, it's highly unlikely that the Canadian authorities would hand over any data no matter how friendly they are with US officials.



It can be, but the only times that's happened for hobby sites is when the site owners were either actively involved in pimping and/or sex trafficking problems, neither of which are an issue with P411. P411 could just as easily move their page somewhere else, as many other sites have done even without being seized by the US Gov't (rubmaps moved to Switzerland, etc).

https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2018/04/us-cloud-act-and-eu-privacy-protection-race-bottom#_ftn1

I was reading this article but the foot note only mentions its a possibility. Regardless, I wouldn't be too sure about it. The US has a tendency to overstep its own boundaries without much care or respect for other countries.

P411 has been under fire on twitter as the owner has been accused of letting LE roam the site among other things. They don't really have a clean slate as far as I'm concerned but I imagine its all people can cling to because there is no better option.
 
Check out the Facebook page of @bestautomotivereviews, the owner of USAsexguide.info They now use car racing as a codeword. It's easier and safer to discuss sex in China (which also isn't what it used to be.)
 
This guy "meiji" mocked me several years ago in my original post for suggesting that the US was a Puritan hellhole.

Yeah, it was this thread, but wasn't that hard to find since in the year and a half you've been on this site you've posted a grand total of 12 times. I mocked you because you said a lot of wrong things appealing to the hysterical element about the US, like "The country is a police state like the Taliban with severe prohibitions and prosecutions of sexual entertainment." And even what you are saying now is just as bad. The American commercial scene is not "completely gone". Things are certainly looking grim, but that's no excuse to spout bullshit. Let's look at the actual facts, shall we?

0. I'll go on record again to say that FOSTA/SESTA is scary shit, not because it's getting in the way of me getting to hobby, but because it's taking a giant bite out of the 1st Amendment and endangering sex workers and those that are trafficked.

1. The only true crackdown was against Backpage, which had been fighting an ongoing battle against the government regarding sex trafficking. Backpage (and Craigslist when it had an erotic section) was the dregs of the hobby scene, where men go to get disappointed at best and ripped off at worst. If this is what you considered the commercial scene, I feel sorry for your hobby life.

2. internet sites are fungible. Western countries (on behalf of large media companies) have attacked The Pirate Bay in a battle going on for a decade or more. It's still up, because it's used various internet technologies to do so.

3. As to the specifics, while its scary that this is happening, the vast majority of sites haven't been shut down by the government, and most are very likely going to re-open once they've moved off-shore. Preferred 411? Still there. Rubmaps moved offshore. USAsexguide as others have mentioned is planning to move offshore. ECCIE is gone, but I wouldn't be surprised at all if it moves offshore. Far from being 'completely gone' I've been able to get appointments with a number of different K-girl organizations that still exist in the Bay Area, who started up their own websites when it looked like FOSTA/SESTA was about to be signed.

There's way too much business to be done for these sites to go away forever and doom the hobby in the US, and they'd have to crack down a lot harder than they already are to make a real dent, and short of arresting half of the mid level managers in Silicon Valley and most large cities in the US, there's not much else they can do.

The people responsible for this calamity are Republicans. The bills were initiated by Republican lawmakers for the most part, and signed by a Republican president.

I consider myself a liberal, but have no doubt that there's plenty of Dems that are really happy about this law too. There were 77 co-sponsors of this bill in the Senate, and CA Dem Senator Kamala Harris has been a strong proponent of cracking down on the hobby since she was a DA in San Francisco.
 
@meiji, since SESTA was passed, the government no longer needs to shut down websites. Threatened with 25 years in jail, they shut down by themselves. What's worse, the law leads to more invasive self-censorship. Did you know that Microsoft now reserves the right to monitor your Skype calls, and to turn you off if you are sexting with your GF?
 
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In the stranger things department, the owner of USAsexguide.info went to Facebook and Twitter, and he is getting viciously attacked on Twitter - not by evangelicals, but by providers, who applaud the demise of the site. Jackson has been doxed. Follow @a2sautoreviews for details.
 
In the stranger things department, the owner of USAsexguide.info went to Facebook and Twitter, and he is getting viciously attacked on Twitter - not by evangelicals, but by providers, who applaud the demise of the site. Jackson has been doxed. Follow @a2sautoreviews for details.

Yeah, apparently there was a vocal group on USASG who were crowing about SESTA passing and proposing using it as an opportunity to "starve" providers out and re-set the market.

Not the best way to make friends....
 
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Ok, this is getting a little absurd. Dial it back a notch, I don't want close down threads where people can share information.
 
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Prostitution can almost completely be eradicated this way.
Not prostitution but mostly the internet as a medium.
Which makes it a lot worse for both girls and well meaning guys, of course.
They basically want to silence girls and take away their safety of screening, and they dont care mongers get scammed as well.
This is actually a way to enable criminal pimps and violent custers and anyone who wants to do harm because they hate us. And the guys behind this are also players in the industry and they want to abuse girls without them being able to get help. Republicans are all about perverted sex behind closed doors, but somehow think its cool to preach anti abortion and anti sex to oppress women and to make the common people do their will.
 
@meiji, since SESTA was passed, the government no longer needs to shut down websites. Threatened with 25 years in jail, they shut down by themselves.

Except they are just moving offshore by and large.

Did you know that Microsoft now reserves the right to monitor your Skype calls, and to turn you off if you are sexting with your GF?

What's your source for that? Most VoIP services that aren't encrypted point to point surely listen in on your calls somehow and I'm sure they have terms of service that can suspend your account for doing something illegal, but I'd like to know where you see that MS is saying they might shut you off for consensual conversation.
 
Yeah, apparently there was a vocal group on USASG who were crowing about SESTA passing and proposing using it as an opportunity to "starve" providers out and re-set the market.

Not the best way to make friends....
What is the women's reasoning behind it? Less competition?

I know that guys who actually have bad intentions like girls to go back on the street with no ways to vertify if a guy is reliable or to get helps