I am interested to know, for those of you using this site, why do you opt for it over an escort service, which is a sure thing?
I am interested to know, for those of you using this site, why do you opt for it over an escort service, which is a sure thing?
It's not always about the sex when you're sugaring. I think most people tend to keep these relationships private , and they'll go on dates, trips, etc not always looking for sex.
I don't know if this is common, but after I feel comfortable with an SB (ie. I've met her multiple times and I see no red flags), I'll often invite them out for drinks with friends. I went out Friday night for drinks with friends, and since it was all guys, I invited an SB to keep us company. My friends know what's up so there's usually no need for explanations. Honestly, it's often cheaper than a girls bar or kyabakura if you do it this way.
edit: Fixed spelling/grammar
A few unorganized thoughts. Keep in mind this is the product of a LOT of hit or miss (and more miss than hit).
It's nice to have an actual ongoing relationship with someone (not saying that's possible with all or even most, but it is possible with time and effort). Even some of the people I don't see regularly anymore I count as friends (for example the first long term SB I had became a veterinarian, and we regularly discuss pet related things. I sometimes bounce things my pet's vet says off of her for a second opinion). On my end, I've been a sounding board for more than one person for general business advice as well as specialized advice relating to my day job. I've also given more than one relationship advice (including my standard advice that I'm a terrible person to ask for relationship advice).
I've had lackluster sex both with SBs and with providers. Personally, I find it easier to write those off with an SB, who is ostensibly not a pro, than with someone who is ostensibly a professional (many SBs are in fact pros, but I have been the second or third person that more than one of them ever had a physical relationship with also). Also, related to the point above, I think sex is better with someone you actually like and who doesn't hate you. I am relatively certain that the people I see regularly also enjoy the sex as well, within reason.
It's nice to be able to spend time with someone without the feeling of being on the clock. Many SBs are watching the clock, of course, but many aren't. If you're doing it right, it's not a pure business relationship.
I am lucky in that neither the amounts I spend on SBs or the amounts that I would have to spend to ejaculate an equivalent number of times with an escort are particularly important to me, although sugaring is easily more expensive (money for the girl plus money for dates, gifts, etc etc). But the satisfaction (=value from time spent) with the SBs I have actually built relationships with makes it worthwhile for me.
The fact that it isn't a sure thing adds a bit of excitement (although of course paying for it means it's easy mode).
That all being said, I would totally understand why someone would decide the value isn't there for them. In fact, I myself have taken breaks from it, sometimes extended, when I don't think it's there for me.
I'm back in Tokyo after being stuck outside the country for most of the pandemic. Decided to get on SD for some tail.
If you're in central Tokyo, my recommendation is to check the message board right when you're ready to play. I got out of a meeting in Marunouchi at 4 and had an itch to scratch, so headed over to Shinjuku and started messaging from the train.
After a few minutes in Kabukicho I got a message from a girl whose date had stood her up. She was already in a love hotel and gave me directions.
I thus found my way within minutes to a lovely looking 23 year old, 168 cm, slim with B cups and short bobbed hair, already in a room ready to go. Undressed her to find a nicely manicured bush, clean around the lips. We showered together, took a dip in the ofuro, and then went straight to bed. We made out, she gave some of the best BBBJ I have experienced in my life, let me suck her tits and go down on her smooth lady bits, then we 69ed and fucked in various positions, and I ended up finishing in her mouth (mainly because the LH condoms were of the shitty tight variety and I stupidly forgot to pick up my own).
Total damage was 5 man including the hotel. Worth it IMO for a hot chick who knows what she's doing. The other DTF girls I have messaged in the past week wanted anywhere from 2 to 8+ as compensation, so there is considerable variance in expectations. I couldn't get a fuck like this for $400 back in America.
Seriously, is this some kind of code, or does this girl just want someone to buy her lunch?
Some girls messaged me after a long time, saying they hadn't noticed my earlier replies.Since the website has been redesigned, it seems to me that the response rate has dropped. Does this match your experience?
Hey guys, i want to know if non-japanese speaker can use and get a girl in sugardaddy,jp?
Yes, if the girl understands the language you are using and is interested in meeting you.
I finally signed up and let's just say it's pretty tough if you are just an English speaker like me. On the other hand, it's really motivated me to learn Japanese - which says a lot for a Brit because we really hate languages
I'm back in Tokyo after being stuck outside the country for most of the pandemic. Decided to get on SD for some tail.
If you're in central Tokyo, my recommendation is to check the message board right when you're ready to play. I got out of a meeting in Marunouchi at 4 and had an itch to scratch, so headed over to Shinjuku and started messaging from the train.
After a few minutes in Kabukicho I got a message from a girl whose date had stood her up. She was already in a love hotel and gave me directions.
I thus found my way within minutes to a lovely looking 23 year old, 168 cm, slim with B cups and short bobbed hair, already in a room ready to go. Undressed her to find a nicely manicured bush, clean around the lips. We showered together, took a dip in the ofuro, and then went straight to bed. We made out, she gave some of the best BBBJ I have experienced in my life, let me suck her tits and go down on her smooth lady bits, then we 69ed and fucked in various positions, and I ended up finishing in her mouth (mainly because the LH condoms were of the shitty tight variety and I stupidly forgot to pick up my own).
Total damage was 5 man including the hotel. Worth it IMO for a hot chick who knows what she's doing. The other DTF girls I have messaged in the past week wanted anywhere from 2 to 8+ as compensation, so there is considerable variance in expectations. I couldn't get a fuck like this for $400 back in America.
which says a lot for a Brit because we really hate languages
He just was talking about sugardaddy.jp, there is a message board there and that's what he's referring to.what's a good bulletin board for this?
We'll I've managed to hit on a good seem of girls who are fashion designers and who all have uncles who teach them how to invest in nfts with amazing returns - lucky guy I am!
Anyone have other scams you'd recommend being in the lookout for?
Ehhhh.....ok, I'll give you one. The ones that own coffeeshops probably don't.We'll I've managed to hit on a good seem of girls who are fashion designers and who all have uncles who teach them how to invest in nfts with amazing returns - lucky guy I am!
Anyone have other scams you'd recommend being in the lookout for?