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[wtfpker]

Yeah, putit doesn’t need any Japanese, Dolce needs conventional Japanese usually but the girls are younger and cuter.

You can check the websites if there are any girls you are interested in and can line up your visits with their scedule. Or you could walk in randomly. Weekday daytime is usually most quiet. There may be less girls working also but since you don’t speak the language and its your first time its maybe better to walk in at a time that there are not many customers so that the front staff can be a bit more patient with you. I think weekdays around 14.00 or so could be good.

Awesome, thanks so much for the help, will definitely go there as it looks like it’s my best option, might go for the hour long honestly.

 

[Wwanderer]

Don't look down on a HJ - I can honestly say in P4P I have had HJ experiences that blow 90% of FS out of the water.
A girl who knows what she is doing and has an good supply of lube is capable of amazing things.

Same here, and it totally makes sense when you think about it. Although women with good bedroom skills can do some very interesting things with their vaginas, hands are capable of far more patterns of movement and pressure and general flexibility than any vagina. There is a big plus for FS in the minds of many/most men (and of course minds count A LOT), but in terms of pure physical stimulation hands are the best, a mouth next and then a vagina. Odd but true imo.

-Ww

 

[MossBoss]

Coffee shops are great places to meet foreigners, I've met a few at my favourite clothing stores and will just compliment something I like that they are wearing to break the ice.

My best friendships have been made in daylight just walking around the city.

Well meaning comment but not so helpful in the real world. I would agree that for 20 year old confident female escorts it is quite easy to make random friends.

The OP is a male student with not so much confidence or money. Don't build him up to fail. It is difficult for most males to suddenly get new friends especially when he has explained about his situation with women.

Joining some Meet-up style event would be much less pressurized and fruitful than hassling people in coffee shops.

 

[Sudsy]

All those places have women who are like twice his age..

You say that like there's something wrong with older women...... when I was his age I was seeing a lady in her mid 40s who taught me a lot



(But yeah, Jan Jan might not be the best idea... not so much because of age, mind, but nobody's early experiences should be in a place like that.)

 

[Durg50]

Pick any international party (just google international party, tokyo) and go there. They are usually cheap, like 3000yen for all you can eat and drink.

You have said you are 6foot tall, ‘solid looking’ and work out, as well as having youth on your side. This will put you in the top 5% of guys at any international party. The girls will come to you, you wont need to approach them.

You’ve also mentioned you are inexperienced and slightly socially awkward? Doesnt matter at an international party. Most people there are the same (at least the socially awkward part). The fact you speak english will be interesting enough for the majority of ladies there who will get a kick out of practising their English with you. Be prepared to answer the following questions at least 50 times;
Where are you from?
Why did you come to Japan?
Can you eat sushi?
You’ll be fine and will find people to hang out with easily.

As for p4p stuff, with your budget Id avoid it, as you are not experienced and dont speak japanese your options will be very limited and you are more likely to come away dissaapointed than satisfied.

 

[wtfpker]

Pick any international party (just google international party, tokyo) and go there. They are usually cheap, like 3000yen for all you can eat and drink.

You have said you are 6foot tall, ‘solid looking’ and work out, as well as having youth on your side. This will put you in the top 5% of guys at any international party. The girls will come to you, you wont need to approach them.

You’ve also mentioned you are inexperienced and slightly socially awkward? Doesnt matter at an international party. Most people there are the same (at least the socially awkward part). The fact you speak english will be interesting enough for the majority of ladies there who will get a kick out of practising their English with you. Be prepared to answer the following questions at least 50 times;
Where are you from?
Why did you come to Japan?
Can you eat sushi?
You’ll be fine and will find people to hang out with easily.

As for p4p stuff, with your budget Id avoid it, as you are not experienced and dont speak japanese your options will be very limited and you are more likely to come away dissaapointed than satisfied.

I am usually pretty social, I am just worried that with a language barrier that it would be awkward, I feel like that’s a given though.
I do believe I’m decent looking at least, I’d post a picture but I am insecure about this subject. Someone showed me a facebook group earlier with foreignor meetings like a sake drinking event tonight, I am definitely going to check these our.

 

[wtfpker]

You say that like there's something wrong with older women...... when I was his age I was seeing a lady in her mid 40s who taught me a lot



(But yeah, Jan Jan might not be the best idea... not so much because of age, mind, but nobody's early experiences should be in a place like that.)

Not gonna lie I was very interested in any of the places reccomended to me last night. But it was a few days since I rubbed one out, rubbed one out in the shower earlier so I’m thinking more clearly now. I probably won’t be going a p4p spot unless I think I need really badly. The local facebook meetup spots seems like the place to go.

 

[rob040188]

I still gotta get used to trains, Im from Colorado so its all just driving regularly and I still haven’t bought my train card

Ah, now I understand your why you don't like to take the trains here. It can be very claustrophobic during the morning rush hour. BTW there are women only train carriages here (depends on the location and it is usually women only during the morning rush hour), I once made the mistake of getting inside one.

im new to this escort thing.

That's ok. I am new to this scene also

Id prefer someone that looks younger, I would book with one of you guys but currently outside of my budget, will still consider it though.
Edit: and by one of you guys i mean are the highly rated and helpful independents that have been giving me advice.

Yes the indies here on TAG are very helpful But please do understand that there are boundaries. They have real life issues to deal with also. For most of them (I have only been with two, so i'm not really sure) escorting is a part time thing only.

Furthermore, I am not strictly interested in just Japanese woman, if I could find a foreigner that spoke english as well it would be better actually.

If you ever do decide to go through with it, please read these threads first:

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/standard-practices-for-meeting-ladies.4258/
https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/things-not-to-ask-a-provider.17773/
https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/escorts-turning-down-clients.17568/
https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads...morrow-helpful-suggestions-are-welcome.18485/
https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads...y-rubbers-in-donki-shibuya.18586/#post-166802

And please practice safe sex. There was this guy here (he's banned from PM'ing and Posting now) who was making a nuisance of himself because he had unprotected sex.

Good luck

 

[warubuta]

If your goal is to get laid, you will not get laid. If your goal is to have fun and make friends, then you have a chance.

 

[Durg50]

I am usually pretty social, I am just worried that with a language barrier that it would be awkward, I feel like that’s a given though.
I do believe I’m decent looking at least, I’d post a picture but I am insecure about this subject. Someone showed me a facebook group earlier with foreignor meetings like a sake drinking event tonight, I am definitely going to check these our.

99% of the ladies who go to these events go because they
A) wanna practice english
B) wanna hook up with a foreigner
Or
C) both
Dont expect any supermodels, but as warubuta says if you go there looking to meet people and have fun, you’ll have a good time and a decent chance of getting laid too.

 

[Desktop]

I do not know what you guys did at 21 but I was clubbing in Shibuya, Roppongi & discovering Love Hotels.
Do not get wasted, girls that live far like Chiba or Saitama are cool. After 1am you can just meet girls easy on the streets in Shibuya because everyone is looking for a bar or club or to have fun at the time.
College girls partying during the week are fun.
40 year olds can not do this the same way a 21 year old kid can.
Meeting them here now can lead to them meeting up with you back home in the US.

 

[MikeH]

40 year olds can not do this the same way a 21 year old kid can.

Yeah, we older guys have a rule that if we are not in bed by midnight we go home.

 

[wtfpker]

Got a big problem guys, I can only use my debit and credit cards to purchase online and it gets declined in person for some reason. I still need to get a pocket wifi, anyone got any ideas? I am currently near shinozaki station.

 

[TAG Manager]

Got a big problem guys, I can only use my debit and credit cards to purchase online and it gets declined in person for some reason. I still need to get a pocket wifi, anyone got any ideas? I am currently near shinozaki station.

Nope. Call your card company.

If you can't get cash from Seven Eleven or Japan Post ATM's, then you'll need to figure something out. You should have brought cash with you and exchanged to yen, a safety net of physical cash is recommended.

But seriously, if you're card won't work at those ATM's mentioned above, you either have a card that's not compatible or your card provider is blocking you. For POS (point-of-sale) transactions, the same applies as the ATM comments.

7-11 and Japan Post ATM's are the most foreign card friendly ATMs.

 

[Sudsy]

Got a big problem guys, I can only use my debit and credit cards to purchase online and it gets declined in person for some reason. I still need to get a pocket wifi, anyone got any ideas? I am currently near shinozaki station.

Call your card provider, they're blocking it because it's being used physically in another country. Standard security provision - most card companies want you to advise them before you leave.

 

[wtfpker]

Weird thing is that I was able to buy online with my card. I picked it up, another question i was gonna go out tonight but is bringing a backpack to a bar weird? I have a wallet but I wanna carry my wifi and other things.

 

[TAG Manager]

bringing a backpack to a bar weird?

Yeah, not really recommended for bars/clubs - most people that are carrying bags, put their stuff in coin lockers that are usually around the area.

Unless you're going to one of these bar/restaurant combos... that's probably okay. It's just something you're going to have to keep track of.

 

[wtfpker]

Update to my trip:
Was able to talk to my airbnb host and he got me a spare room, so no more internet cafes. Traveled a little bit to get my pocket wifi which made me 1000 times more comfortable with subways now, I feel like I can navigate anywhere. I saw a foreignor event at shell lounge tomorrow and I’m going to give it a visit, having a blast in Tokyo so far!

 

[wtfpker]

Update 2:
Just got back from the event, almost pulled this 30 year old japanese girl, thought she was my age this whole time; was making moves and she was saying how she liked younger men in broken english and kept feeling up on my muscles. Someone else told me that the subway closed at 11:43, it was 11:10 and my pocket wifi ran out of batteries, so I had to dip, was maybe 10 minutes from securing the bag, failed guys.

 

[Durg50]

Update 2:
Just got back from the event, almost pulled this 30 year old japanese girl, thought she was my age this whole time; was making moves and she was saying how she liked younger men in broken english and kept feeling up on my muscles. Someone else told me that the subway closed at 11:43, it was 11:10 and my pocket wifi ran out of batteries, so I had to dip, was maybe 10 minutes from securing the bag, failed guys.

1) she wouldve given you batteries
2) why on earth you care so much about your pocket wifi?
3) the batteries from point 1 wouldve been provided at her apartment after she had removed your virginity.
4) she was probably 40

Seriously man, ‘im gonna miss my last train’ is THE most used signal in Tokyo that either party in a date / meeting at a club etc is DTF . Its a code word for, ‘so, one of us lives centrally, one doesnt, we gonna fuck or do i need to run to the station’?

 

[Durg50]

Someone else told me that the subway closed at 11:43, it was 11:10

This dude is having morning sex with the girl from the party right now.
Dont worry though, she is closing her eyes and thinking of you

 

[Wwanderer]

2) why on earth you care so much about your pocket wifi?

You're joking, right? I mean if I had to choose between loosing internet access and not having air to breathe, I'd let the net access go I guess, but I'd need to think about it a bit first.

-Ww

 

[wtfpker]

This dude is having morning sex with the girl from the party right now.
Dont worry though, she is closing her eyes and thinking of you

Was a girl and she had to leave before I did. I couldn’t undersrand much of what she was saying either she was just eyeing and groping me. Her friend also came in and either spoke english and she got alot less touchy when her friend camw, seemed like she was a little embarrassed. My pocket wifi is my lifeline, I don’t have a charger, it’s my third day out in a foreign country i’ve never been in, idk the subway system or how to get there and was an hour driving distance from my spot, so.... Id rather be safe.

 

[Durg50]

Was a girl and she had to leave before I did. I couldn’t undersrand much of what she was saying either she was just eye raping and groping me. Her friend also came in and neither spoke english and she got alot less touchy when her friend camw, seemed like she was a little embarrassed. My pocket wifi is my lifeline, I don’t have a charger, it’s my third day out in a foreign country i’ve never been in, idk the subway system or how to get there and was an hour driving distance from my spot, so.... Id rather be safe.

I want to make fun of you but I was the same in my first week in tokyo.

Better luck tonight!

 

[wtfpker]

I want to make fun of you but I was the same in my first week in tokyo.

Better luck tonight!

Hahaha no worries, hard to discern meanings through typing, thanks man!