What makes you a great client?

I believe a guy & a lady may have totally different opinions of what actually makes a great customer for her.
I believe being clean, being respectful, discussing what you want before should be normal. Also what might be normal for her might be totally different from my thoughts.
For all we know the great customers might be the one who just sets out 10 minutes at the end of a session to let her have a tea in the hotel & catch her breath. Who knows, she’s the one working, I’m having fun.
 
This thread popped a couple of related questions in my head, which I won't make a new thread for (sorry, OP, for minor-hijacking your thread!).

1. Do escorts remember good or great clients? There's a saying that people tend to remember the bad experiences/mistakes rather than the good experiences/deeds. Wonder if this applies to p4p. Escorts may remember all the bad ones and only the great ones, not the good ones. You may have to do something really awesome to be remembered as a great client.

2. Do we want to be remembered fondly by the escort in the first place? I would guess so if we'd like to repeat and obviously would want the next session to top the previous one. Being remembered fondly also gives an ego boost of sorts. But some punters just want the sexual relief.

I am probably indifferent to Q2, as being clean, courteous and gentleman-ly should be second nature for me when being with an escort. That nature though probably makes me sometimes a bit plain vanilla and have less of that "bad boy" wildness/attraction, thus unlikely to be remembered.
I've realized as well that the lady feeling good, or at least seeing that the lady is turned on/feeling good/enjoying the sex, turns me on best as well.
 
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Is it good to fall in love with an escort ? How will it be viewed by them?
 
iamyuu said:
1. Do escorts remember good or great clients?
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Undoubtedly yes, but they also clearly remember the worst clients too.
In my many years of meeting and talking with escorts, most of what we talk about is the bad... they are usually venting and just using that chance to let some of the frustration out.
However, they do mention their really good repeating clients - some of these are super luxurious dates and others are very simple hotel dates. Even the simple dates are memorable, even without the fanfare when the client hits the right buttons.

The 2nd question - you're going to find mixed results but you're right in the regard that some people in this hobby are simply looking for a release and nothing more. Others are looking for the true dating experience and I'm sure that the professional providers out there take note whether you want to be remembered or not.

Don't know if was mentioned or not in this specific thread - but probably one thing that does stand out is when a client books a provider but continuously compares her to another colleague. Or, the client just keeps talking about how this other provider did this better or is better looking or whatever... don't go off comparing your current date to a past date right in front of her... it's demoralizing for some.
 
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Ivanhoe said:
Is it good to fall in love with an escort ? How will it be viewed by them?
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You're going to freak them out unless it's really mutual.
You have to keep in mind that these ladies have lives outside of escorting, whether they tell you about it or not.
 
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Do you mean that it is not advisable to fall in love with escorts?
 
I find the relationship with the escorts to be very beautiful and fascinating but also very complicated emotionally because the escorts have their private lives to live ( understandably so.)
 
Ivanhoe said:
Do you mean that it is not advisable to fall in love with escorts?
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I don't know how to answer that without discounting your feelings or that of any escort.
However, I think it's not advisable to fall in love with an escort when you probably don't know much about her.
I'm just saying meeting someone in a normal circumstance is probably a safer bet - when you meet an escort, it's a paid service and they are there for that moment. It's not impossible that a relationship could blossom but I'm telling you from 10+ years of experience is that relationships or marriages built out of a client+escort relationship, don't last and sometimes end violently. In fact, I don't even know any escort currently that has maintained a successful relationship built from a client+escort beginning.

Again, I'm not saying it's impossible but from my own observations, interactions and experiences... it usually does not work. (Inevitably - the male partner of the escort will use her work as a weapon and launch verbal and mental abuse at her... I've seen this happen first hand.)

I am aware of some escorts that are married in their real life, but still do escorting... but they didn't meet their husband as a client.
 
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But you can’t have sex with a dog..Sex is the way through which love is expressed physically to the other person..If one has sex without emotional involvement there will be only ejaculation and no orgasm.
 
TAG Manager said:
Undoubtedly yes,... they do mention their really good repeating clients - some of these are super luxurious dates and others are very simple hotel dates. Even the simple dates are memorable, even without the fanfare when the client hits the right buttons.
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That’s good to know. I’ll resist the temptation to ask what those “right buttons” were, because the answer is always YMMV, and there should also be the excitement of discovering those pleasure buttons by ourselves.;)

TAG Manager said:
...I'm sure that the professional providers out there take note whether you want to be remembered or not.
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Yes, that should be true for clients looking for GFE which includes the appeal of being remembered & special.
 
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Ivanhoe said:
But you can’t have sex with a dog..Sex is the way through which love is expressed physically to the other person..If one has sex without emotional involvement there will be only ejaculation and no orgasm.
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Sex is a component of a relationship - it's not the only way of showing love and compassion, physically. Sex is also just a physical release for many people with no emotion involved.. it's just a physical act for a percentage of these folks.
 
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iamyuu said:
I’ll resist the temptation to ask what those “right buttons” were, because the answer is always YMMV, and there should also be the excitement of discovering those pleasure buttons by ourselves.
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Bingo, especially YMMV... very, very true.
 
Ivanhoe said:
If one has sex without emotional involvement there will be only ejaculation and no orgasm.
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Well I can guaranty you you can have orgasms (even great ones) with people you don’t love. I must be a weirdo but even had quite good orgasms with some ladies who made me angry, or whom I found otherwise dumb or boring.
 
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Frenchy said:
Well I can guaranty you you can have orgasms (even great ones) with people you don’t love. I must be a weirdo but even had quite good orgasms with some ladies who made me angry, or whom I found otherwise dumb or boring.
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Similarly you can enjoy a good meal even if the cook is a fat boring person. :p

Ivanhoe said:
But you can’t have sex with a dog..
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Have you even tried?

.If one has sex without emotional involvement there will be only ejaculation and no orgasm.
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Have you even tried? This one is not even illegal. :p
 
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TAG Manager said:
I don't know how to answer that without discounting your feelings or that of any escort.
However, I think it's not advisable to fall in love with an escort when you probably don't know much about her.
I'm just saying meeting someone in a normal circumstance is probably a safer bet - when you meet an escort, it's a paid service and they are there for that moment. It's not impossible that a relationship could blossom but I'm telling you from 10+ years of experience is that relationships or marriages built out of a client+escort relationship, don't last and sometimes end violently. In fact, I don't even know any escort currently that has maintained a successful relationship built from a client+escort beginning.

Again, I'm not saying it's impossible but from my own observations, interactions and experiences... it usually does not work. (Inevitably - the male partner of the escort will use her work as a weapon and launch verbal and mental abuse at her... I've seen this happen first hand.)

I am aware of some escorts that are married in their real life, but still do escorting... but they didn't meet their husband as a client.
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I understand. I think the quality of the life will be better if sex is disassociated from love and affection. Sex should be like having a good food or good drinks. Nothing more..Nothing less..
 
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Ivanhoe said:
I understand. I think the quality of the life will be better if sex is disassociated from love and affection. Sex should be like having a good food or good drinks. Nothing more..Nothing less..
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I don't think you understood. Of course a good meal can taste even better if the waitress is nice and the chef drops in to talk with you. But if you or your partner doesn't know to play tennis you won't have a good game no matter how much you love each other.
 
Danbo said:
Lol, insurance?

I think it all boils down to communication. I like to chitchat a lot to break the ice. I think that makes if easier for the girls to relax....and also for me, because talking about whatever creates are much more laid back atmosphere that doesn't feel like buisness. I usually don't talk about what I want....first and foremost I want an enjoyable time for both and i think that only works spontaneously. Of course there are cases where the chemistry just doesn't work, but in general it's like any other social interaction. Treat others well and they'll treat you well.
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probably meant confidence, looks like a French to English translation miss
 
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