What makes you a great client?

[Frenchy]

A bit off topic though but on the other hand I never understood that part of some « providers »’ psyche (to be more precise Japanese hostesses and sex workers) who fall hard for hosts, to the point of often ruining themselves.
They are in the same trade, they know it’s all fakery, they would not like their own clients to do the same.... yet they fall head over heels for those types. W.T.F?

 

[Simonka]

A bit off topic though but on the other hand I never understood that part of some « providers »’ psyche (to be more precise Japanese hostesses and sex workers) who fall hard for hosts, to the point of often ruining themselves.
They are in the same trade, they know it’s all fakery, they would not like their own clients to do the same.... yet they fall head over heels for those types. W.T.F?

Me neither, I would rather spend my entertainment budget on a personal trainer. Endorphins ward off pain and boost happiness. Alcohol on the other hand is a depressant. It’s basic biochemistry.

 

[Frenchy]

Me neither, I would rather spend my entertainment budget on a personal trainer. Endorphins ward off pain and boost happiness. Alcohol on the other hand is a depressant. It’s basic biochemistry.

Yes. Also the personal trainer is probably hotter and with better conversation, so it’s a double-win

 

[BB0523]

No matter how much the provider "rocks" your world... Pay with your wallet... not your heart... you will both be better off in the long term and the provider will appreciate your approach. Some providers make you feel like you are the only one on earth - that's the best approach of a GFE provider, where others make you feel like you are on an assembly line of the "bust a nut" company... If you treat people the way you want to be treated, then chances are you can have a relatively enjoyable encounter with the other humans you are exposed to. If you act like a wanker, then don't be surprised when you are treated like a wanker.. pretty simple approach don't ya think ?

Of course there are exceptions... Like @Frenchy - he is a bit relationship masochistic based on his posts and comments
And @MikeH has his own "Church of Spinners" where they come to worship the Beautiful One... but my gut tells me they would potentially agree on the above ... but hell, I could be 100% off so there is that

 

[MikeH]

And @MikeH has his own "Church of Spinners" where they come to worship the Beautiful One... but my gut tells me they would potentially agree on the above ...

No church survives if they don't treat their followers with kindness and dedication.

 

[Simonka]

Some things I do:
1) Shower beforehand. Even if I know I'll be showering again with the provider.
2) Get payment out of the way immediately after greeting.
3) Tip (not always). I used to bring small gifts, but it can be hit and miss. Money is always appreciated.
4) Ask plainly about services you want beforehand. If she says it's not something she provides, don't ask again.
5) Never pry into personal life.
6) Don't expect one provider to be like another provider. Some are rockets and explosions from the word go. Others take a few minutes to warm up. Some are slow and gentle. Others are like T-Rex on a rollercoaster.

Also, on that "falling in love with a provider thing", I would advise never to do that.
If I feel a special affection from a provider, I just assume that she's really good at giving a GFE and give in to the fantasy and enjoy it. But it ends when the session ends, as it should.

I don’t give a shout out for every single gift I get, but I truly appreciate all the moisturizers and perfumes I’ve received. I’ve never had to go and purchase a body moisturizer or perfume in over two years! Despite wearing them every day.

 

[MikeH]

I don’t give a shout out for every single gift I get, but I truly appreciate all the moisturizers and perfumes I’ve received.

How about them facials? Hey, just asking!

 

[Simonka]

How about them facials? Hey, just asking!

Ew.

 

[BB0523]

No church survives if they don't treat their followers with kindness and dedication.

Hmmmm and I just thought they were attending for the deity of the BO you know most religions are based on someone you don't see in person , so based on that idea... it's not a church after all.... it's a CULT ! !

 

[Ivanhoe]

I think just by having love towards someone with an empty wallet is not going to take the one who is in love anywhere. That love has to be expressed and conveyed to the beloved. Beloved can be anyone including an escort.Is there a better way to express such love otherwise than through getting gifts? Does a poor man deserve to fall in love?

 

[Ivanhoe]

No matter how much the provider "rocks" your world... Pay with your wallet... not your heart... you will both be better off in the long term and the provider will appreciate your approach. Some providers make you feel like you are the only one on earth - that's the best approach of a GFE provider, where others make you feel like you are on an assembly line of the "bust a nut" company... If you treat people the way you want to be treated, then chances are you can have a relatively enjoyable encounter with the other humans you are exposed to. If you act like a wanker, then don't be surprised when you are treated like a wanker.. pretty simple approach don't ya think ?

Of course there are exceptions... Like @Frenchy - he is a bit relationship masochistic based on his posts and comments
And @MikeH has his own "Church of Spinners" where they come to worship the Beautiful One... but my gut tells me they would potentially agree on the above ... but hell, I could be 100% off so there is that

 

[Ivanhoe]

Can we talk about ‘masochism in relationship’ ?

 

[shadowboxer]

Can we talk about ‘masochism in relationship’ ?

I think BB0523 said that Frenchy is a bit “relationship masochistic” which is not to be confused with “masochism in relationship”.

But I mean we can still talk about the latter.

 

[Ivanhoe]

I think BB0523 said that Frenchy is a bit “relationship masochistic” which is not to be confused with “masochism in relationship”.

But I mean we can still talk about the latter.

May I know the difference and can we talk about both ?

 

[Simonka]

Don't know if was mentioned or not in this specific thread - but probably one thing that does stand out is when a client books a provider but continuously compares her to another colleague. Or, the client just keeps talking about how this other provider did this better or is better looking or whatever... don't go off comparing your current date to a past date right in front of her... it's demoralizing for some.

It has never happened to me, but there were a couple of clients who have told me they are not into Caucasian/Tall girls at all. Of course everyone has their type, but it’s a bit off putting to hear that right at the beginning of the session. I prefer to get intimate with people who are turned on by me. Besides, we are not running out of petite or Asian ladies in Tokyo. Why me?

 

[Ivanhoe]

Are escorts gold diggers?

 

[Frenchy]

Are escorts gold diggers?

Depends on how much they ask vs how much they provide ...

 

[Juliet]

It has never happened to me, but there were a couple of clients who have told me they are not into Caucasian/Tall girls at all. Of course everyone has their type, but it’s a bit off putting to hear that right at the beginning of the session. I prefer to get intimate with people who are turned on by me. Besides, we are not running out of petite or Asian ladies in Tokyo. Why me?

Incredibly strange how someone would book you knowing what you look like (from the ad and reviews), just to say youre not their type. Weird.

 

[Simonka]

...

I see you’re speechless

 

[shadowboxer]

May I know the difference and can we talk about both ?

Probably I should give Frenchy the privilege of answering that. Everything else would be bad manners.

 

[Ivanhoe]

Probably I should give Frenchy the privilege of answering that. Everything else would be bad manners.

Over to you Frenchy San..

 

[Simonka]

Incredibly strange how someone would book you knowing what you look like (from the ad and reviews), just to say youre not their type. Weird.

Maybe they were merely intrigued by my posts / personality and not my body type, but the wording definitely has room for improvement Even after two years as an escort it’s hard for me to get “business-sy” and get past the fact that I’m not their type. My fragile ego gets a big straw.

Then again it only happened a few times, more often than not I get plenty of compliments and get treated extremely nice. Maybe escorts do remember the bad experiences after all?

 

[TAG Manager]

Are escorts gold diggers?

From your other posts - I feel that you long for a relationship with an escort and I believe your views are skewed in that regard. Does the escort beg you for appointments? Does she beg you for gifts and money without meeting?

If an escort meets you as agreed and gives you a reasonable service for the agreed time, that’s not a gold digger.

 

[RandomTokyoGuy]

Maybe they were merely intrigued by my posts / personality and not my body type, but the wording definitely has room for improvement Even after two years as an escort it’s hard for me to get “business-sy” and get past the fact that I’m not their type. My fragile ego gets a big straw.

Then again it only happened a few times, more often than not I get plenty of compliments and get treated extremely nice. Maybe escorts do remember the bad experiences after all?

I have no idea, why someone would want to spell that out. Even if you weren't " my type " on most days, on some days you might be. Part of the intrigue if meeting an escort is that you can also meet types one normally wouldn't meet/date. But that's an active positive decision by me, not a mistake. J
because Thai food is my favourite, doesn't mean I don't enjoy pizza as well. Just don't eat it every day. And neither would I see a need to tell the pizza guy that I prefer Thai food and it's much healthier anyways. That's just weird

 

[Simonka]

I have no idea, why someone would want to spell that out. Even if you weren't " my type " on most days, on some days you might be. Part of the intrigue if meeting an escort is that you can also meet types one normally wouldn't meet/date. But that's an active positive decision by me, not a mistake. J
because Thai food is my favourite, doesn't mean I don't enjoy pizza as well. Just don't eat it every day. And neither would I see a need to tell the pizza guy that I prefer Thai food and it's much healthier anyways. That's just weird

And yet again, we get to be compared to food! I’m more of a feta salad than pizza lol.