What makes you a great client?

Jenkins55 said:
lmao. I totally meant insurance although you're right English not my native language.
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ah ok, thought it was from French "assurance" which could be translated "insurance" or "self confidence" or "sureness"
 
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e-smile said:
ah ok, thought it was from French "assurance" which could be translated "insurance" or "self confidence" or "sureness"
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Well, the word assurance exist in English too and I'm pretty sure that's what he actually meant, but I'm not a native speaker either.
 
Ivanhoe said:
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What is there so difficult to understand? Meeting the client is her job. It's not a dating situation for her.
If the client falles in love that's just inconvenient, but I'm sure you will also find enough provider's, who will happily abuse it.

There is the moral question whether she should continue business with you, despite you falling for her.
There is the risk that you are/turn into a stalker or try to invade her personal life in some way. Some people don't take rejections well and start to bad mouth or in other ways harm her business ...

The client falling in love only makes things complicated.
Of course there is the odd chance that it's really mutual, but most escorts don't wait for a client in shiny white armor. Very likely in one way or another they mentally prepare/shield themselves to not get too affectionate for their clients, for their own good.
 
RandomTokyoGuy said:
What is there so difficult to understand? Meeting the client is her job. It's not a dating situation for her.
If the client falles in love that's just inconvenient, but I'm sure you will also find enough provider's, who will happily abuse it.

There is the moral question whether she should continue business with you, despite you falling for her.
There is the risk that you are/turn into a stalker or try to invade her personal life in some way. Some people don't take rejections well and start to bad mouth or in other ways harm her business ...

The client falling in love only makes things complicated.
Of course there is the odd chance that it's really mutual, but most escorts don't wait for a client in shiny white armor. Very likely in one way or another they mentally prepare/shield themselves to not get too affectionate for their clients, for their own good.
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well summarized , and true also for Sugar relationships.... getting infatuated doesn’t make you a great client, only a great sucker (at best) or a great asshole (at worst), been there , done that, got the t-shirt ...
 
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Ivanhoe said:
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I don't know if it's bad but it probably ain't good bruh. You wouldn't fall in love with your dentist or tax accountant would you?

These chicks see you the same way as any other service provider sees you: as a customer. Maybe a good customer but not really as a friend or a love interest.

Yes, it does happen on rare occasions but that shouldn't be considered normal.
 
Not quite sure why there is the need to be a great client anyway.
I mean, do you worry what the waitress at gusto thinks of you. Pretty sure my realtor doesn't really care if his clients are assholes or not, as long as they buy a property. And the bank manager only really cares about you taking your money down the road. Why should p4p be any different?

Good clients tend to be good people (and vice versa). Assholes are assholes across the board.

In the service industry there are always what we call PITA guests. Unreasonably demanding, Overly aggressive ...
Then there are guests who will bring up valid criticism in a fair and balanced way. For me, these are great clients.

Oh and have never seen the value of giving gifts to providers (unless you are a regular and it's her birthday etc). Have, however, got a few from providers (as a regular customer), which I would presume to mean I'm a good customer.

And never fall for your service provider. It's just plain stupid.
 
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MikeH said:
Similarly you can enjoy a good meal even if the cook is a fat boring person. :p



Have you even tried?



Have you even tried? This one is not even illegal. :p
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Let's not cause unnecessary alarm! Beastiality is legal in Japan.

Ejaculation without orgasm .... that is a tricky one......unless we are talking about "his" ejaculation, and "her" orgasm.
 
Rusty Trombone said:
Not quite sure why there is the need to be a great client anyway.
I mean, do you worry what the waitress at gusto thinks of you. Pretty sure my realtor doesn't really care if his clients are assholes or not, as long as they buy a property. And the bank manager only really cares about you taking your money down the road. Why should p4p be any different?

Good clients tend to be good people (and vice versa). Assholes are assholes across the board.

In the service industry there are always what we call PITA guests. Unreasonably demanding, Overly aggressive ...
Then there are guests who will bring up valid criticism in a fair and balanced way. For me, these are great clients.

Oh and have never seen the value of giving gifts to providers (unless you are a regular and it's her birthday etc). Have, however, got a few from providers (as a regular customer), which I would presume to mean I'm a good customer.

And never fall for your service provider. It's just plain stupid.
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I actually do want to be remembered well and be a good customer when I go to a realtor or the bank, or anywhere. You don’t need to go above and beyond, but the idea that people don’t care if you’re an asshole as long as they get business from you, is definitely not true.

Anyway, I don’t think p4p is equivalent to going to the bank. P4p is by nature intimate and risky, so of course being a great client (kind, gentle, thoughtful) makes a huge difference. It’s just not the same as a 2 minute exchange with a bank teller behind the counter.
 
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Ivanhoe said:
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In my mind there is an unspoken agreement to check your feelings at the door with these sorts of transactions.

To develop feelings for an escort and then act on them can be nothing more than a complication or inconvenience for them.

Imagine if this went in the other direction. If an escort developed feelings for me and then acted on them this would create many complications in my life. One thing that is expected by me in these encounters is discretion.
These ladies have a reasonable expectation for the same level of discretion from me.

This is one benefit that P4P offers over hooking up with someone.

Nothing good can come from allowing personal feelings to run unchecked.
 
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Juliet said:
I actually do want to be remembered well and be a good customer when I go to a realtor or the bank, or anywhere. You don’t need to go above and beyond, but the idea that people don’t care if you’re an asshole as long as they get business from you, is definitely not true.

Anyway, I don’t think p4p is equivalent to going to the bank. P4p is by nature intimate and risky, so of course being a great client (kind, gentle, thoughtful) makes a huge difference. It’s just not the same as a 2 minute exchange with a bank teller behind the counter.
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Will falling in love with the escort make a person a good client?
 
I think a good client is one who honours the escorts better, makes her work less stressful. Being respectful,courteous and nice to the escorts will definitely make one a great client..
 
Juliet said:
I actually do want to be remembered well and be a good customer when I go to a realtor or the bank, or anywhere. You don’t need to go above and beyond, but the idea that people don’t care if you’re an asshole as long as they get business from you, is definitely not true.

Anyway, I don’t think p4p is equivalent to going to the bank. P4p is by nature intimate and risky, so of course being a great client (kind, gentle, thoughtful) makes a huge difference. It’s just not the same as a 2 minute exchange with a bank teller behind the counter.
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My point was probably not well made.

What I was trying to get at was that most people who are assholes are assholes across the board. The guy who treats a waitress like shit will probably treat an escort like shit too.

Most people do not need to go out of their way to be a good customer, they just need to be themselves and act naturally as they would in most other situations.

I don't think I should treat a bank teller, a realtor or anyone else any different than an escort.
 
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Ivanhoe said:
I think a good client is one who honours the escorts better, makes her work less stressful. Being respectful,courteous and nice to the escorts will definitely make one a great client..
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Basic Hallmarks of a 'Good Client':
  • Straightforward Booking (Where, When, How Long, How Much) :cool:
  • Show-up on-time, Good Hygiene - Don't be that guy that pretends he forgot to pay at the end. o_O
  • Enjoy the booking with her - Keep yourself on-topic with the date. :love:
  • Go your separate ways after leaving the hotel; both of you probably have other private matters to attend to. :cigar:
  • Avoid endless chatting via email/LINE - It's fine to ask about a booking or make changes, but random chatting should be avoided. :eggface:
All of this is subjective to each encounter - but it's just the basic process
 
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Some things I do:
1) Shower beforehand. Even if I know I'll be showering again with the provider.
2) Get payment out of the way immediately after greeting.
3) Tip (not always). I used to bring small gifts, but it can be hit and miss. Money is always appreciated.
4) Ask plainly about services you want beforehand. If she says it's not something she provides, don't ask again.
5) Never pry into personal life.
6) Don't expect one provider to be like another provider. Some are rockets and explosions from the word go. Others take a few minutes to warm up. Some are slow and gentle. Others are like T-Rex on a rollercoaster.

Also, on that "falling in love with a provider thing", I would advise never to do that.
If I feel a special affection from a provider, I just assume that she's really good at giving a GFE and give in to the fantasy and enjoy it. But it ends when the session ends, as it should.
 
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