its funny how when this kind of discussion happens it always degenerates into a binary thinking : they can’t be real lovers (which no sane hobbyist would expect much less want anyway) so they must be all cold greedy bitches... I felt into this trap a few times by the way.
Well I know by experience there can be a middle ground ... sex friends with financial benefits if you will. Without going into the whole L-word enchillada it can settle in a genuinely mutually beneficial story where there is respect, honesty, stimulating conversations , trips, and, well, great sex too. Rare but it can happen. So this is where the madonna/whore narrative is wrong.
Never said anything about cold greedy bitches..wth? You guys are a trip